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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 12:42 am 
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Obviously, you have not watched Hitch or you gave it a bad review. lol Honestly, a routine is no different than preparing for an interview. Would you go on a interview without preparation? You can think of meeting the girl as an interview. You're trying to put your best foot forward. Impress her. Convey your value to her; the reason why pickup is so challenging is most people can't convey their value through a spontaeneous conversation, through their personality. It's no different than taking a girl to your game, to your concert, to anything that impreseses her.

I mean if you want to fail, go ahead and be my guest. ITs your life do that. Sex like video games is just entertainment, but the hundreds of hours I spent playing video games were thororugly enjoyable and when I think about beating Grand Theft Auto I feel a sense of pride. You decide to give things meaning.

Dude stop trolling the forum and kjing, how about you go back to play your video games, your posts are a disgrace, this is a seduction forum.
My posts are pretty good. Don't be defensive try them. The proof is in the pudding. Try what I preach and it will reap fruit. It will reap fruit. Precious poontang pie And I put that on everything. yet still, I get so much hate http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CRuN9qpa_ik But, If I get hate I must be doing something right.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 10:09 am 
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I'm with skills on this one.
You are doing something right which is trolling. Personally I like your posts, because I have real life experience so I can have perspective. But they can be quite damaging to people who are inexperienced, not just with girls but with everything in real life.
But they are funny, keep posting.


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PostPosted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 9:30 pm 
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Most people can't convey their value through a spontaeneous conversation, through their personality. It's no different than taking a girl to your game, to your concert, to anything that impreseses her. I mean if you want to fail, go ahead and be my guest. ... You decide to give things meaning.
I cannot speak for you, obviously, but I would feel bad about myself if I could not socialize without extensive preparation. But you are right in one way, a man creates meaning by setting his own goals. If your goal is to get an achievement in a computer game, or get laid with every woman you meet, who am I to judge those goals or the methods you employ to meet them. I do not believe that a man who sleeps with many women is more successful in any way than another who sleeps with but few, nor do I believe that routines are more effective than non-scripted interactions, but you are certainly free to think so.

That being said, I don't think everyone approaches routines the way you do. I think that most people get into the PUA scene because they are unhappy and (at least somewhat) socially awkward. They think the solution to their unhappiness is to get laid, and they expect routines can replace the social skills they lack. Pick-up guru's make money of these people and thus have a financial incentive to perpetuate their clients' lack of social skills, which is why guru's (generally) don't teach basic social skills like listening or sharing stories. Instead, they teach 'techniques' like 'DHVing' and 'gambits' that are supposed to bypass a woman's 'defenses'. Of course, these are broad generalizations, and there are plenty of exceptions. However, I think sites like puahate.com arose precisely because of the problem I outline here: aspiring PUAs are looking for a way to fill the void in their lives, but are disappointed when the techniques they are taught can only give them temporary rushes of euphoria, and often not even that.

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PostPosted: Fri Mar 08, 2013 8:32 am 
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There is so much bullshit hating on this website I would think everyone has PMS. There are so many buttholes saying this is wrong that is wrong, like a bunch a fanatical Puritans. Can a man just live his life his way and be proud of it and feel good about it? Do you have to talk shit?! do you have to hate? This blog is so catty....

Look, some people are naturals. Some people become naturals. I have had success when I do things naturally. I am nearly assured success when I prepare thoroughly. Anyone thats good at anything prepares thoroughly. I remember reading MYstery Method and he talked about preparing your openers for months. But, thats probably weird and awful right? thats wrong right?

Something becomes natural by practicing it again and again and again.

I assume most guys that get into PUA are happy. They are happy with themselves and their lives. I assume that they don't want to change. I assume that they only thing they want to change is the amount of women in their life. You don't hate yourself because you're socially awkward or don't have a girlfreind. Its just something and its good or bad you decide so. Shit


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 08, 2013 9:29 pm 
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There is so much bullshit hating on this website I would think everyone has PMS. There are so many buttholes saying this is wrong that is wrong, like a bunch a fanatical Puritans. Can a man just live his life his way and be proud of it and feel good about it? Do you have to talk shit?! do you have to hate? This blog is so catty....
Nobody is showing you hate bro, we are just disagreeing. You handle disagreement in the same way you handle rejection from women; i.e. very personally. Nobody is saying you don't have a right to an opinion. But you give off a very negative view of women, you look down on them. It sounds like you've been rejected really badly and you're one of those "revenge" guys.


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