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So I'm pretty new to the whole thing.
Anyway I got a question, when trying to talk to a random girl on the street(or anywhere else) what would be a good approach?
I usually just say Hi/Hey and try to start a convo.
But would it be better if I bumped into the girl and said sorry and try to start a conversation from there, or...?
Any ideas
Using some type of opener that asks her opinion on something is my personal favorite. It is very easy to transition off and it doesn't give her a chance to say no. The opener doesn't really mean so much, its how you present yourself and what you are saying. There are several different types of openers, however, if you are just starting, pick a few that you like and make them work for your own personal style. When you approach a woman, what you say doesn't really matter at first, it is the judgement she is making on your value... So a couple things from your post:
1. If you are going to bump into her, that works sometimes... but don't say sorry. Making an excuse for your own existence is going to turn her off instantly. In her eyes, you saying sorry is immediately lowering your value below hers. Women seek out a man who brings value to her life. Find out what values you bring to a woman and make sure you convey them. Remove the word sorry from your vocabulary. Don't be sorry about anything you do. Everything you do, every move you make has a reason behind it. Say something like "damn you're always in the way

" and smile and IMMEDIATELY go into what ever story you want to tell her.
2. Women love when you observe things about their personality. They want to know and feel that you want to get to know her as a person, not a vagina. Once you immediately transition into your convo, pay attention to her and her mannerisms and don't be afraid to say things. The idea behind it is that you are fun and playful about it... Not a dick.
One step at a time!
