She´s scared to go out with me!!



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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 12:19 pm 
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Last week I agreed to meet with a HB9 sometime when I have time. I texted her yesterday and
it took her several hours to respond. I have no problem with her taking her time with the text but when she eventually replied she said that she was scared?! Here´s the short convo:

Me: Yo shortie! Me & you at the railwaystation 18.02 on tuesday. Ps. which one do you prefer [city name] or [city name]?
HB:haha
HB(again): Where are we going... Im scared xD
Me: To travel the world ofcourse!
Me: Haha no I just come to the city center trough the station xD

After that she didn´t reply anything! Did I do some mistakes on my initial text or is she just being paranoid..
As she didn´t answer to the last messages should i still go there expecting her to be there? I mean like, if I dont see her there should I call her to check if we are in different parts of the station?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 3:31 pm 
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Is this a first meeting?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 4:09 pm 
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Yeah it´s day2


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 4:36 pm 
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so you have suggested a day2 trip/travel out of town with someone she doesnt really know? Its one thing to suggest and entertain the idea when first meeting a woman but it is another to try and make it a reality. She may have already marked you off as creepy and is why she is not responsing to your text.

You have to play inside the womans comfort zone. Some women dont even want to talk on the phone til after a day2, some will only text til they feel comfortable enough to talk on the phone.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 6:08 pm 
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No, no, no you misunderstood what I meant, which makes it even more likely that she misunderstood me too. :)

I have NO intention of taking her out of the town. The railwaystation is just usually the place where I start my dates since its in the center of city and its really easy to walk to the mall, coffeeshops etc. infact its easy to go anywhere from there. I also use the train to get to the center of the city so it has been really easy to meet up there.

So how should I handle the situation now? Send her a message or just go see if she´ll come to the meeting spot? Or have I already blew my chances and move on?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 6:13 pm 
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Yeah im sure she probably miss understood as well.

I dont think you have blown it. I might send one other message clearing things up bout the train station and having coffee there. Make sure its not sounding depress just you may have worded the last message wrong. But dont send any other messages than just one more unless she replies to it. Any extra messages you would come across as needy.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 04, 2013 6:21 pm 
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Okay thanks, I¨ll do that. Maybe something like: " Hi! Hope u didn¨t misunderstood my message yesterday about the station. you have to impress me before I¨ll take you anywhere ;) see u tomorrow 4 the coffee!"?


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