Thank you for being considerate. Hurtful criticism is never useful.

I thought you had high self-esteem how can criticism hurt you?

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Vic

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Everyone is sensitive. Stop lying to yourself. With enough pressure any man can be broken and even ruined. That's a life lesson. You need to really think about guarding yourself emotionally. Life is not about being a tough guy, its about being a smart guy. A tough guy will get hurt real bad in this game called life.

I can't believe the guy who can't take criticism is lecturing me on criticism.... Irony much?

LOL - Everyone is NOT you! We aren't all sensitive...

With enough pressure MOST men can be broken... NOT all men. The mental strength it takes to not be broken is indeed a rare feature but it is a feature we can all gain.

Life lesson? I should cry when people say things to me and explain things correctly... I should be a whiny little bitch and say I'm sensitive and rejection should hurt? I should bitch and complain about respect?

The shit of it is I don't consider myself a tough guy... If I get physically challenged I laugh and say I'm a sissy la la I don't want you picking on me I secede. I'm not a tough guy.... I'm a man in control of myself... I don't allow anyone else to control me except me. You on the other hand.... obvious mental weakness.

Go tell a buddhist monk the shit you are saying.... They are quite amazing at controlling themselves.

Proving more and more you shouldn't even be commenting on this stuff.

Serious questions:

How many confidence books have you read?

How many self-esteem books have you read?

How many self-improvement books have you read?

How many psychology books have you read?

Based off of all of your answers and views I'm going to go with zero, come back and contribute to this thread after you read at least one of each. Perhaps you should read something before you start influencing people with stupid fucking ideas.

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Vic

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You're not listening and you're not thinking.

Everyman can be broken with enough pressure, you don't believe this but it is true. [This is difference in belief that we have] Any tough guy, any true tough guy that has actually been under pressure will tell you this.

You should not cry when people criticize you, but exposing yourself to negativity and hurtful comments erodes your confidence. And if something is negative enough it can leave you permanently damaged, you can try to get over it and you may never. I am not saying people can't take criticism what I am saying you should guard yourself. You seem like you refuse to admit that people are only so strong emotionally, but you need to know your limits.

It doesn't matter if I have read books. You think it matters. You think it says something about my credibility but the validity of my statemetns can proven simply by reflecting on you own life. You know you are so secure about something sthat I could criticize you all day and you would never change your mind. Other things you are insecure about and if you get criticized it will hurt you. YOu know this.

You say I'm mentally weak, but you don't even know what you're saying. Everyone is the same, No one is inferior or inadequate. WE all hav things we are secure about and things that hurt us. If not you're not human. I'm superman, but I'm still kinda human.

Now as far as the monks are concerned. You got to take this into consideration. They leave a very uncomfortable lifestyle so they are used to pain. They don't use technology, they probably fast alot, they probably wake up early, they probably are in isolation. They have a spartan lifestyle and they are some what numb to pain. So if you criticize them it may hurt, but they are use to being hurt. They can deal with it.

Also, the meditate. I don't particular believe in meditation to clear your mind. I'm not about clearing my mind. I am about filling my mind with positive thoughts. But, the monks are probably used to meditation as a form of focus. So you would say that they are good at focusing and removing clutter from their mind. This doesn't matter with criticism. you have to think about it. YOu have to think about the negativity and by thinking about the negativity you evoke a negative emotional response. They would still be hurt like anyone else, but as I said they may deal with it better.

The only thing is this. Once you start feeling hurt you start thinking differently. Imgaine the thoughts you would have if you were ashamed all the tiem or angry all the time or afraid all the time. Think about it.

You've never read a book on this shit and you are stating "facts" on it?

LOL- THANK YOU - just proved to me your lack of education on the topic. SHUT UP! You don't have a fucking a clue!

You have no clue about meditation, try it out before you knock.

Monks endure more pain than you can even imagine. More pain than you understand. You go fucking stay in the cold(like freezing temps) for hours to prove your control over yourself.

You are mentally weak... others influence your mind. I control my mind no one else does! Don't you get it? You give others control of your mind I refuse to.

Not every man can be broken... look at the martyrs through out history. A man may sacrifice everything he owns including his life for someone or something he cares about. You have no clue dude... you are talking shit and you have ZERO EDUCATION on the topic. Some folks have the mental strength to not be broken... you simply aren't one of them which makes you mentally weak... yup low self-esteem, no self-confidence, a horribly huge ego, and you are mentally weak.

To me this is like going up to a 16 year old how has a opinion of everything but not nearly enough life experience or education to know shit. You have all these opinions and NO IDEA about what you are babbling about.

Please go read something and educate yourself... you are proving more and more to be a dumber and dumber human. I honestly think your IQ is good, and your convictions of your beliefs are awesome, it is your closed minded nature that is horrible, learn that there are your beliefs and there are facts, they aren't the same... your education on the other hand.... well that is in need of some remedy.

If you ask a question learn to listen not judge the answer.... Some of us have had a SHIT load of bumps and bruises on our journey through life and we are here to help you regardless of how you feel about it.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Dude you love hyperbole lol

I've read books but my selection is ecletic, but I'm not going to list them because I don't have to prove my qualifications to you. You're not my judge, I am. The things I say will work if you try them. If you reflect on your life my points will be proven. It's things that are life and field tested that matter.

I am not closed-minded because my views are reasonable I respect the opinions of others. I don't call people stupid or ignorant for their opinions nor do I try to force my opinions on others. I just know what I know, you seem like you can't stand that.

Yes there are martrys that have given their life for a cause, but just because they weren't broken does not mean they could not have been broken. [that's the assumption you're making] Everyman can be broken.

A monk is not stronger than anyone else. You need to stop looking at people as mentally weak or mentally tough. Everyone is strong in some areas and everyone is weak in some areas given what you have had experience. To label a person weak or strong mentally is really just hyperbole. For instance, you'd probably have a nervous breakdown if we threw you into a war zone or you had to live in the ghetto making ends meet with three kids or if we put you in San Quetin prison today. Its all relative. A soldier is strong in war, a single mom is strong at managing a budget and prisoner is strong in doing time. Its all relative. I think a monk would be weak in all those things.

You're arrogant because you believe that you have omnipotent power over your mind. You can influence your mind to some extent and others can influence your mind to some extent. The key is to be aware of your weakness [that everyone has] then avoid peer pressure that you are not strong enough to bare. Your outlook allow you to look down on people that are broken by pressure that you couldn't even bare yourself. Everything is not a choice.

LOL - YUP you don't want to prove you don't know shit... just like the self-esteem test... you don't want to prove you have low self-esteem.

I'm not arrogant dude... I'm confident. Arrogance would me I don't have value in this area... I've become overbearing due to your lack of rationality.

Get over yourself dude. you can be wrong we can all be wrong.

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Vic

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I have stated reasons to support all my views. You have been unable to disprove anything I say. Get over yourself. Stay in your lane.

Don't have to Hellhound has proved you to be a provider of misinformation.

Your own personal definitions on self-esteem have proven to you to be a provider of misinformation (such as your study on self-esteem).

Your understanding of evolution and attraction has proven to be misinformation.

You advertising yourself as having high self-esteem is proven to be misinformation based off of your own answers.

I mean I can keep going through your information if you want.

Shall I go on disproving?

The funny thing is all I'm trying to do is get you to wake up and make sure NO ONE listens to your bull shit... It's the same reason you have so many people attacking you.

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Vic

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1.) People attack me because I think independently and they feel threatened. I standout from the crowd.

2.) Hellhound proved shit. There are no legit blogs one on how to seduce men.lol

3.) My definition of self-esteem is true and accurate. My answers are more realistic than yours; you're arrogant and delusional.

4.) The world would be a better place if they believed me. The things I say would work if people applied them. Half the things you think you don't even know they are true or not.

These are your issues.

1.) You have no integrity. You insult me then you try to be nice to me. Either you respect me

2.) You constantly make inferences regarding my character and you don't know shit about me.

3.) You think you have absolute control over your mind and this a lie. This a recipe to get someone seriously hurt emotionally. Ruined. This is so delusional of you think.

4.) You can't think for yourself. You look to book after book to prove your point, but its not books that makes some true....its experience. Its seeing it and witnessing it. Maybe you can wake up.

5.) I think everything you say is a bunch of shit. I don't know why you keep writing me. I don't believe any of it.

I would say that confidence is rising above/shrugging off any hurt caused by others.

That said, it makes me laugh how modern society legitimises harming others and yet also condemns it (as the OP is doing).

Hellhound proved it I'm not going to need to do much more to damage your credibility, you are so blind and ignorant you are outright ignoring reality. Women get in better shape to look more seductive, they dress to look better and be more seductive... How many blogs are there on a woman's appearance which in fact directly related to seduction with men(we are more visual than women).

LOL - Nobody here is threatened by ignorance we have all been ignorant... Why on earth would feel threatened by somebody like you? Because you can teach us to feel bad when others say things to us? So we can feel hurt when a girl isn't attracted to us? GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE with that bull shit.

WOW! you are in denial!

The definition you provided was good, not your definition.

The world would be delusional full morons who can't learn lessons or pick up girls. Society would be doomed to failure because no woman would mate and thus the end of the species. You suffer from narcissistic personality disorder most likely... might want to go to a therapist they may be able to help.

Hey hypocrite you just made assumptions about my character and you don't even know me. You make comments on my integrity... LOL fucking funny shit. Then bash on me for stating comments that really are just observations based on your comments.

You are delusional if you don't believe your mind creates you reality....

Your right I can't think for myself... I've read tons of books to create the beliefs I have plus the countless experiences... LOL WTF is wrong with you? Just because I read it in a book doesn't make it gospel. I just think... I don't know someone with a PHD has a bit more credibility than a moron on a forum that is delusional about him being perfect.

I think for myself an form my own beliefs not based off of any one book. I'm not some dumb ass that falls into one concept and falls in love with it... hence me not being some dude stuck on some PUA guru saying he is the end all be all of this pick up shit. I don't ever get my information from one resource... I study a topic and form a conclusion.

Your beliefs are flawed, they are absolute bull shit. No one is threatened by you narcissistic I want easy love guy, none of us think you are anything more than some dumb ass who is delusional and uneducated. You seriously have some serious mental issues the more and more we dig deeper, the more I realize you really need help you are fucked up in the head. You are not part of reality and you are going to go through endless self-pain due to a poor outlook on life.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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