I want to be with them. I ask, is this the kind of girls a player gets..........girls that look a bit skanky, have tattoos, look like they have slept with all kinds of dudes. Is this the life of a guy who sleeps with bar chicks? I see some attractive girls taking pictures with all kinds of d-bags. One guy looking like a bit metal head/wigger, another looking like a wigger. I ask myself what do girls see in these guys? But I guess being a 31 year old v does this to you. Am I becoming intimidated by the fact that if I ever go bar hopping these girls have had way more than me? Even girls between 18-21. Also do I have to look like a d-bag to even get a bar chick? I mean get tats, piercings, wear bandanas, skinny jeans and wifebeaters(which I hate)?

NO. 21-year-old guys can get away with that shit, but 31-year-olds cannot. If you wear those clothes and put on the act that goes with them, you're going to come across as a poseur who's trying to be a douche bag, which I don't think has ever attracted any girl in the history of the world.

Act and dress your age. The only way you can pull off the juvenile shit as a 31-year-old is to be in a successful band, and even then it still kinda turns people off. Especially the younger girls.

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MrGiggles

Thats not really something I wanted to hear. I recently discovered that despite my skinny frame I do not look in my 20s. Yeah I have wanted at times to relive my youth and get with those young cute 19-22 girls that like being around "boys". It makes me feel today that the boys are a step ahead in seduction, the bedroom, attractiveness than the men today.

Well luckily here is some not so secret truth about 20-22 year olds. They like older men as well. How do I know this; well I'd like to say it's from personal experience, but I am 23-years old so I cant, but what I can tell you is that I've never seen my own farther with a girlfriend that wasn't at least 20-years younger than himself. even now; when he is in his seventies he is dating women in their late forties, and when he met my mother, she was around 25 and her was 47. Don't sweat it man. Some of these girls are bored to death with dating us 23-year olds and just want a mature man.

Don't stoop to our level, you're not in your twenties any more. Use that to your advantage when gaming younger women. You can't be win a competition in who is the younger man against someone like me, but what you can do is make them seem immature and make yourself seem like a mature, confident man who knows what he likes and what he is doing.

Good luck out there.

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