I have thought of this one, for any situation, it is designed to appear less direct than it is, use a situational opener, any situational opener on the girl you like first then say; "By the way if I wasn't so shy I would have liked to have told you that I think you are the most gorgeous girl I have seen all day, but as I am shy I will just tell you that I think you are cute".

By the way for bitchy girls when they blow you out you could always try suddenly bursting into tears in front of them. It probably wouldn't work well in a club where there are lots of people around. But in a field report I read on another forum some years ago a guy said he did this on a bus and it nearly worked as the girl suddenly changed from being really mean and bitchy to being sympathetic and tried to comfort him. You might then be able to close them as a friend and later use them as a female wing.

Haha. Burst into tears!? Are you fucking kidding? That's really fucking gay! If a girl is bitchy to me, I laugh at her or ignore her. It wouldn't work anywhere mate. I have enough friends - female or otherwise. Last thing I want is a friendship which started 'cause I ACTED like a fucking weakling. I'm a man, not a crybaby.

And why would you want to 'appear' less direct than you are. You're looking for ways not to 'offend' the girl. Fuck what she thinks - sure you probably should consider that a bit when you're in a relationship. If she doesn't like you being bold and upfront, then that's her problem, not yours. Can someone explain to me why I would want to 'appear' less direct? She's there, I want her, I'm going to get her, or not.

There is a notion in PUA that rejection is a bad thing. Its not. Its nature. Deal with it or be a fucking pussy for the rest of your life and marry a fat chick.

Number one sounds great. I might try it.

"Hey, I saw a movie last night that said 'all you need is 20 seconds of embarrassing bravery to change your life'. I saw you, and I was gonna keep walking, but I thought I'd stop and introduce myself instead...

How about this one? (just came up with it so it might be pretty lame)

When youre sitting at a table or someplace, ask the waiter for some ice.

Walk up to a girl and say:
Hey there, I wonder if you could help me break this up?

I stated it because it almost worked for a guy I read a field report from a few years ago. When I read this field report on the http://www.thelss.com forum about five years ago. He stated how he approached this woman direct on a bus and she basically told him to "fuck off", I don't think he planned to do this but he suddenly burst into tears and said the woman changed completely on seeing this and became very sympathetic and comforted him. It was a great field report, I would repost it here if I could find it again.

What about this:

Guy: say something very random and inquisitive like "Hey are you an organ donor?" Or "Hey have you been to the zoo?" The point is to get her off guard with a wacky question.

Girl: giggly response

Guy: "I was just thinking of the zoo then I saw you and I just said the first thing on my mind before I missed you."

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1."Hey hold still rascal you have something in your hair."

(Pull imaginary lint out of her hair)

Follow up: "We fashionistas gotta watch out for each other."


2. Mean Girls lines such as:
"You're wearing that on a Monday? You can't sit with us."
"My boobs hurt. I think it's gonna rain."
Then talk about mean girls. Chicks love that movie.

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I agree with this.

I have a response/edit to the very first opener; "Are you shy?". Never tested, but I'd love some opinions.

Go up to the girls at the bar or stand near them at a club or whatever, and talk/drink/chill with a friend. After a couple minutes ask, "Are you shy? I've been standing here with my buddy for five minutes and you haven't even said hello." (craigsd)

If she responds: "No, I just didn't want to talk to you." You can bounce back with "You can tell how interesting a person is to talk to just by looking at them? Awesome!" Then point to someone random and say "What about that them? Are they interesting to talk to?" Smile while you say all this, and give off a friendly vibe. Hopefully she finds it funny and plays a long with it. If she does, say something like "See, you did want to talk to me after all." If she responds negatively, judge the situation and go from there.

If she responds: "No, I just don't approach guys in clubs/bars/whatever". Respond with "Ah, one of those girls; always getting someone else to do the dirty work?" (neg). Again, the key is to be smiling and friendly. If she responds positively, say something like "Well since I've done the work for you, can I at least know who I'm working for?" and hopefully she'll tell you her name. Go from there playa.

Used this not as an opener but in mid conversation on a date and made the girl crack up laughing so thought it might be a good opener too?

Me: Hey how's it going?
Her: Blah Blah
Me: I just had to come over and say hi. My initial plan was to come over, punch you in the the shoulder and run away Kindergarden style but figured just saying hi might work better (said with a big smile obviously)

Too silly to use? Thoughts?

I really like all of these, but yah a playful delivery would be a must.

I saw this gold mine of openers, and thought to just add one that worked like charm for me ( Used it 3 times so far, I know I'm lame, but worked though )

If you have an iPhone or any phone with a Front Cam, lift it to a Girl's face as if you're gonna take a picture of her, her reaction will be to dodge it or whatever, you can then tell her that you're just taking a photo of yourself, if she's interested, you could strike a conversation from there

GUESS YOUR NUMBER:

Your answer is always 3(try it)

You: Hey, I bet I can guess your number
Her: Huh?
You: Yeah, think of a number from 1-10
Her: Ok
You: Multiply it by two
Her: Ok(You can neg her if she takes long)
You: Add six
Her: Ok(she should be smiling by now)
You: Divide by two
Her: Ok(again neg her if she takes too long and apply Kino if possible)
You: Finally...subract the number you originally thought of....and your answer is 3!
Her: OMG how did you do that or ...wait you cheated(If she's smart)
You: bla bla bla you're in from there.

Just discovered this site a few weeks ago. Great info, learning alot. Since i'm a beginner at this I find this to be something kind of scripted that you can remember and will break the Ice easilly.

For beginners like me, it's great to build confidence. Love this Quote:
"You miss 100% of the shots you don't take"

I tried the glass one, but it didn't work for me. They both agreed that although they made me look smart, that in a bar it would be better w/o them. I was lost when they both agreed.

However, this really was my first try, so I keep trying different things. Eventually something will click. I'm not giving up.