Hi, I hope you can help me with this.
It is not something is driving me mad but has arised my curiosity. I met a girl a year ago in party with some friends. We ended up in her bed and after almost a long hour we could not finish what we were there for. She put some resistance in the end. I stood up smiled and after some breakfast with everybody downstairs we said each other bye and that was it.

After 7 months, we were in contact in facebook happened that I had to move to her city so we got in touch again and she said we had to meet. We had some wine and I cook some dineer and apparently we made a move to finish what we could not 7 months before. Everything was well, we got in the bed I took some time to warm her up and we started the job. I have to say that from the first time I met her, I got the impression of her that she was not having a very active sexual life and I could check that by the way she behaved in the bed. She did not even touch me! so in the middle of the play I suffered one those terrible things, it all went down which actually, it does not surprise me as I was not touch at any time by her and I had to keep the thing up for her.

She suddenly said it is not ready and I reply, is not but help me and she basically gave up. I did not get annoyed but I asked her to help me to finish which she did not do in the end. Next morning we woke up smiling as usual although internally I was thinking... better not mention here. She look at me and gave me a hug, which I accepted and I left. That same day she texted me saying that she thinks we are better as friends and I replied that we have always been friends....

I let this cool down for 3 weeks and I do not know why I am this way but I still want to FUCK her!!! its been 2 times and still has not been until the END!
Now she is trying to avoid my questions when I am asking her why is she being so cold... because in my mind I am the one who should say fuck off as she had 2 times to do this right... and it seems she did not care about me and my needs when I know that she got very well satisfied... it is not that I have a big ego but I am older than her by 7 years and with my age I do know what I do right and what not.

My question, why is she acting this way? I have not threat her badly at all. I have been someone with a lot of patience and she keeps dealing with me like if I was a shit. She does not want to see me again...

I am not taking this very serious, however I want you guys to give me an idea. Why is she acting this way? have I overlook something? I have been polite and understanding with her which I think it is basics for any human interaction.

Look man, understanding women can be hard, even when you know her very well and there could be a million different reasons for why she is acting this way. It could be that you let it cool off for three weeks and now she is punishing you for it, or maybe she found a guy she has a stronger emotional connection with and now wants to be exclusive. Maybe she is embarrassed that she couldn't make you cum if you couldn't make her cum i bet you wouldn't be feeling too good about yourself either. Maybe she doesn't want to ruin the friendship and are cooling you off...

Or maybe she thinks you aren't that good. Yes I know, it's harsh - but sex is a team effort and if you guys are not compatible she isn't going to like it that much, even if you make her cum till she cramping up and gasping for air. I actually just had a chat with one of my female friends about this. That sex is one of those few things that's good even if it's bad and...

...Can be bad even when it's good - for her it's not just about feeling good after she cums, she has to feel good both before, during and after sex, and if she feels inadequate because she can't make you cum she isn't going to be emotionally satisfied even if she is physically and trust me mate, most of the time, emotional satisfaction is much more important for the girl.

That's my guess anyway, well; good luck.

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No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens. ~Abraham Lincoln

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Thanks man, your comments are right. Sometimes I forget there are more things out of sex that could have influenced that behavior.

Don't worry man, a lot of guys here are great minds. Great thinkers. Is this a good thing when you run into a logical problem YES!

But women aren't very logical are they? No, they're emotional, but us guys we end up over-thinking things and maybe mess it up for ourselves.

It's a trap man, don't fall for it!

Good Luck out there!

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No matter how much cats fight, there always seem to be plenty of kittens. ~Abraham Lincoln

Because i can.