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I don't think she's considered a cougar.
Maybe I'm wrong but I think cougars are like, late 30s and onward.
The whole idea of cougar, I guess, is an older person seeing a younger person. So in your case, she's a cougar? But I thought cougars are basically milfs.
I was in sorta the same situation. I was 23 and she was 34. We "banged" (bareback) for days until she became too needy. She wanted a baby and it's been only 2 months. Fortunately, she didn't get prego. Haha off topic sorry.
Seduce her. In my eyes, she wants to but she is not allowing herself in fear of shame. Make her feel secure that no one would know.
If she's 27, she's not a cougar, she's a milf. Cougars are classified as middle aged mature woman.
In this situation I would agree that you need to seduce her. Puts some space between yourself and her and make her feel like shes missing out. Challenge her mentally, neg her, and tease her...sexually.
I've had my fair share for milfs/cougars. I've noticed, if you use cat string theory, they'll come to you and want you.
Example: (This was a 29yr old woman w/ a 7yr old boy)
One Thursday night I decided to go out and my first stop was a local wine bar/restaurant by my place. My brother is the bartender there, so I already have great social proof in that spot. Anyhow, I arrived around 10:30 and the place was pretty dead; with the exception of some regs(All Men) that I've previously met and a couple tables having dinner. After seeing how dead the place was, I decided I was going to have a drink and then head to another target friendly spot.
While I was having a glass of wine, this solo HB9 walked into the bar, walks to the side of the bar where the locals are sitting(I was about 3-4 stools away, solo)and is immediately greeted by all the locals. It was like seeing a bunch of lions eyeing their prey. They were all over her, complementing her, putting her on a pedal stool, it kinda made me sick, but I figured I could use this to my advantage.
I didn't bother paying any attention to her and tried never to face her while i engaged in convo with the social circle she was in. After some time, by brother asked her if she had met me.(Winging) When the time came were we had an formal introduction I look right into her eyes, said hello, and kept eye contact while we shook hands.(It was a timely handshake which was meant to let her know there was some chemistry)
After we met, I continued talking to one of the other guys in the social group. She tried butting into the convo, but I kept my attention on the guy who was speaking. When there was a pause in the convo, I turned towards her, and said she was quite rude for trying to butt in to the convo.(I smiled after I said this) When she was about to reply, I cut her off and and said:
"Are your eyes hazel?" (The rest of the group heard me say this as I said it pretty loud).
There was a moment of silence before she replied: "OMG, Yes they are! I'm surprised you can see them!?"(The Wine bar is pretty dark, but I knew from when we locked eyes from the introduction)
I replied: "Yeaah...You should cut down on the eye shadow though, they might be easier to see. Think about going with the natural look too, I think it fits you better."
Her mouth dropped, she was stunned, while the rest of the crowd busted out laughing. After that, she came to me, took a seat, and it was on. We started talking, shared a bottle of wine, and the rest was pretty standard. After 3 hours of conversing, drinking, flirting, we went back to my place and that was that.
Conclusion: I hope this gives you some idea of how to approach this milf you are trying to fclose. Since you already know her, you are at an advantage. Just create some space, go out somewhere, and seduce her. Make her want you, not the other way around(Even-though u do want her). Hope this helps! Good luck!
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