Hey guys, so I've been meeting up with this HB 8.5. She's a friend of my friend and they all bother in the same social circle, so I went out with my friend last month and it was obvious that me and her were going to hit it off... we did, she was drunk, I was drunk, we had sex... So anyway we got talking and I invited her for a drink, we got on and had sex. A week later on Valentine's night we went to a comedy club and no sex due to being on her period, shit happens.

But the past two weeks we have gone out maybe 2-3 times and went back to hers and slept over but she's not putting out all of a sudden. I'm doing plenty of Kino at the right times and being seductive but she's not reciprocating. In a recent text when we were messing about she dropped in this line "are you raging I haven't put out as much ". This definitely shows she knows what she's doing.

My theory on this is that she's looking for a boyfriend and that she's decided to suspend sex in till we become a couple. I can see the reasons why but that seriously sucks... Personally I'm not 100% sure I want to get back into a relationship, I probably would if she wasn't in my friends social circle but I know if things go sour between me and her then as she's close friends with my mate then that causes problems.

How do you guys think I should deal with this? Punish her somehow like freeze her out? Call her out on it?

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I'd address the issue... Something like : It's obvious we're into each other, is there a reason why you're not puting yourself out? And also tell her what you are looking for. If she wants a boyfriend and you can't be with her tell her that. Although I don't know why would you hold back just because she's a friend of your friend... If you like her, just be with her... It will be awkard when you stop hooking up with her aswell anyway.

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The virtual me is almost as awesome as the real thing. Almost.

Has it occurred that this is something she is doing to turn herself on?

I recently started getting into fetish scene and one thing that a girl told me is that it actually turns her on to tease the guy tell he can't take it any more. Instead of pleanty of kino. Are you kissing and leading it to your end result? Are you being dominate enough that she is being turned on or are you just doing the same things over and over.
she was drunk so were you the last time. Lets your more primal self out. Maybe she is waiting for you to show that.
Just as a disclaimer. If she says no. Stop not worth going to jail over.

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It does look like some sort of talk is needed.... Cheers

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