im 20, i was just asking a girl out and she said she had something that she was too ashamed to tell me, finally she did, and it just so happends she's got a 4 months old child.

im fucking shocked as fuck,

any of you have any experience in this?

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Yeah. What do you actually want to know, though?

lol.

run away.

hahaha i was about to but she seems in her head, like she knows im not about to become that kids adoptive father. further more i think this girl would make a perfect open relationship material we'll see.

i what to know like if you had to go through any kinda baggage or if and how it complicated things, you know, if i should watch out for anything in this kinda situation

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Hey Owen,

I dated a girl who had a kid too, i was 21 she was 20. It all depends how ya feel, if you decide to give it a go the key to it is to make her feel like shes a normal person and not a mother. try and do things together on a one to one basis but at the same time show that you accept she has a kid and thats a huge part of her life. As for the whole open relationship bit, stick to the code of PUA (dont lie). Be honest with her and open, say summin like: This is new to me, i like you alot and the situation doesnt scare me but i want to make sure no one gets hurt. maybe for now we can start seeing each other/open relationship and see where it leads,
this gives her a truthful vision of what the future could or could not hold and on the same level your not commiting yourself to her or the kid.

Hope this helps!

that's awesome Cuffs thanks a lot, i'll see what happends and be sure to keep you guys posted

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