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| ballplayer23 | PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 12:06 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Feb 22, 2013 5:28 pm Posts: 5 | | Ive hung out with this girl from my class probably like 4 or 5 times and she wants to keep hanging out but i do not want to get in the friend zone. how can i avoid the friend zone?? for some reason i end up in the friendzone ALOT
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| RiRi | PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 12:37 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Feb 05, 2013 7:33 am Posts: 261 | | What do you guys do when you hang out?
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| ballplayer23 | PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 12:41 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Feb 22, 2013 5:28 pm Posts: 5 | | we grab some drinks at bars and stuff... this past weekend i bought us tickets to a concert. shes in one of my classes also. i feel like its tough to stay out of the friends zone when shes in my class.
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| RiRi | PostPosted: Thu Feb 28, 2013 12:49 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Tue Feb 05, 2013 7:33 am Posts: 261 | | With the limited info you've provided, it seems like you are getting in your own way. This girl seems interested enough to hang out with you 1 on 1 but you probably haven't escalated at all. Have you tried? Has there been any sort of hugging/touching etc? If you don't convey what you feel at some level she's just going to treat you like a gay friend.
One thing you can do is to not hang out with her for a while and see how she responds. If shes asking whats up or seems disappointed then you may have an opening. If you don't escalate, there will be no progress. Apply some kino and see how she responds. Does she give you any IOIs during your dates?
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