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PostPosted: Mon Feb 25, 2013 5:09 am 
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So I met this girl about a month ago through a mutual friend. First time we met nothing happened between us, 2 weeks ago went out with friends and she was there, ended up spending a lot of time talking with her. We exchanged numbers and have been texting each other regularly. Then last weekend I finally kissed her at the bar, we made plans to go out with a group Friday and kissed again in a photo booth and kissed some more that night before everyone called it a night. Last night at her house she has some friends over, I stuck around till after everyone left and we ended up making out on the couch for a while. We haven't spoke about the kissing or what ever it is going on between us.
Today I found out via FB that she most likely has a BF living in Argentina, however there is no pictures of said BF or status. she has made no mention of this. I would like to date this girl but not to sure how I should approach the situation. Should I just keep acting normal as if nothing has happened, ask her what she is looking for or do something else. Any advice would be helpful.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 25, 2013 12:27 pm 
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In my opinion, if this situation is completely mind fucking you then just ask her directly whats going on. You wont grow if you drag this out. Or ask her to hang out just the two of you. From there you should be able to find out what she wants but if you cant figure it out by the end of yalls gathering just ask.

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PostPosted: Mon Feb 25, 2013 3:18 pm 
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There is several posts on here about the distant relationship, that will answer your question as to what you want to know.


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PostPosted: Mon Feb 25, 2013 3:33 pm 
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Huh? I've been trying to get her to go out 1 on 1 the last week. When I suggested something she says she will have to check or busy. So idk if she's playing games or what...


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2013 9:01 am 
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Well its too soon to tell if she is playing games with you or not. If she is in a relationship then its kind of obvious that to her its not that serious and does not mind messing around. For now I would act normal and take a step back then look at how your texts/gatherings have been going so far. With texts if you realize that you have been initiating first most of the time then make it less frequent you dont want to look needy. I would suggest that next time you hang out with friends and you escalate to the point where you guys are making out that you then take the initiative of asking/telling her to hang out. Also by now you should have already learned some places she likes going to and/or hobbies and would recommend doing something she is comfortable with as your date. If she keeps making excuses then ask her straight up what she wants.

Again if anybody has more to add then please do so. Also critisim is appreciated.


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 26, 2013 1:07 pm 
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Thanks for the advice. Id say on the texting its about 60/40, a lot of the time I will end a convo but she will bring it back to life. She went cold as of yesterday morning, so im waiting to see if I eventually hear anything from her.


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