Right, so now that I'm improving with my club skills, I need to get started on the day game.

Here's the problem:

In a gay bar, you can pretty much assume everyone is gay. And if they aren't they probably aren't going to freak if you seem like you're attracted to them (I mean, they DID go to a gay bar... what did they expect?). Things are entirely different outside the gay/lesbian bar, because about 80% of the people you see are straight.

It's easy to pick out the obvious lesbians. Especially the older ones. But I'm attracted to 21-30yr old femmes. Pretty much gay chicks that look like straight chicks. Makes trying to chat up anyone I'm attracted to difficult.

Plus, I'm not a butch, so people don't know right away that I'm a lesbian. Which means that when talking to an HB, she might think I'm straight, and then suddenly get creeped out when I start kino and flirting.

I feel like if I don't try to pick up during the day I'm doing this half-assed.

Any thoughts/suggestions on my situation?

from what ive seen girls kinoing girls doesnt set off alarms. Just don't do it in an obvious was..plus read my post trojanman88 vs lesbian (funny shit)

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Sorry, don't have a lot of girls on here and the ones that there are, I don't know if they would have a lot of advice for lesbian game as they're predominantly straight.

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Ouch, man. Might as well have just said "we dont want you here and have nothing to say". Big contrast to the welcome I got from Chico: "Pick Up Artists are lesbians in a male body."

Not here to get advice from other lesbians.

I don't think we are all lezbians lol, but yeah we can help you here WELCOME

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Thanks Trojan

i know zip posted something on here about when she went to pick up girls (she's straight)...don't remember where though

here it is
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Alright, alright. I'm about to let out a big secret here. I am bi, but probably not in the way most of you guys think. Yes, I am attracted to women, but not as attracted to them as I am men. . . . . . Meaning, I prefer guys over women, but still like the occasional woman. It's just really hard for me to find one that I'm sexually attacted to.
So, Coyotekal, I really can't answer your question, because I've never really tried picking up a chick myself. I did have one chick try to pick me up over the internet and it did kinda freak me out because at the time I was only toying with the idea of being bi. I've only been with one girl, but she was my friend.
I don't think that was much help . . . . but . . . . oh, well!
~Cali

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I'm kind of the same way. I'm gay and prefer women, but there are rare occasions where a guy gets me going sexually. Generally, I cant get romantic about them, and I find the sex to be boring (because I'm not mentally into it). But I get what you mean. There's sort of a "range" of straight to gay... and a lot of people fall somewhere in between.