Hey gonna be hitting the club for the first time (excluding events) so what things should I know that will be of use to me?? Any help from gaming to pragmatism would be appreciated!

Thanks

TAM

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If its a busy kinda place, it will be packed & loud, so be sure to project your voice. At the very least wear a collared shirt. Most clubs have a dress code, so research it before hand, and be sure your dressing better than the minimum that they require. If they require shirt and slacks, you go a step better, and wear a suit(no tie). Doing this will help you to stand out as a individual(peacocking). Your feet most likely will get stepped on a few times/so do not wear overly expensive ones. Above all, just keep your cool while in the club, and meet as many people as you can(especially the staff!). You posted this last saturday, I am surprised no one responded. If you went out Sat, I hope you did well. If not, then I hope this helps you.

@DeclanDVious

Thanks for the response yeah was disappointed not to get a reply before going. So thanks for your advice, I ended up going with chinos and shirt, and fitted in nicely as most had gone t-shirts. Feet did get stepped on once lol!

Also I did meet quite a few and at one stage was in the very verge of a make out when this HB9 got a text (later learnt from her bf) and then she felt guilty and wasn't game.

one problem I found that night was that initially girls were receptive and open but when approaching many I could tell even if they did not openly say it saw my age as an issue (I am 18 and am fairly baby faced) so I was labelled "cute"

Eg this woman mid 20s danced up to me grabbed a hand so I took her other and was dancing closer when her mate looked at us, smiled then dragged her away (I believe probably due to our age difference of say 7 years)
This happened a few times that night annoyingly!!!

can someone give advice on how to tackle older women's perceptions please? (there were loads of early and a few mid-twenties )

Regards
TAM

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