Up to this point almost ALL of the women I have been with have been American. Been with 2 girls who were born in another country but raised here in the US. I have also been on a dry spell due to an extremely busy schedule which involves a lot of exams and not enough time to approach but I am confident that will help soon.

For a while I always had an interest in foreign girls (mainly European and Latin American). So I decided to do some research online and basically found that a large number of them overwhelmingly love men who are either White or Black ethnically and all other races of men hold no value for them. Well, as a Brown guy, for a while that did kind of hit me hard but I decided to get over it a bit (this was before I started having success).

Now in a way, it affected a decision of mines back in December when I skipped a chance to go to Sweden with two of my good friends because I mostly heard women there either hook up with White men or make exceptions for Black men.

Problem is, somehow I have always had a love for the unfamiliar or the exotic or something different. I like foreign girls but I have an issue with inner game that tells me these girls will reject me for my ethnic appearance alone or will expect so much more out of me because men with my kind of an ethnic appearance are looked down upon in their country.

Like for example, due to personal experience, I have a small interest in girls that are French but have heard from real life friends and online that they hate Brown men in general due to the bad opinions about Arabs in their country.

Now I overcame my racial insecurity pertaining to American girls but that is mainly being heritage in America was never looked as a bad thing.

How can I get myself to overcome my inner game issue when it comes to approaching foreign girls?

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You probably know that this is all in your head. When you go there, you are already going to been in good state, have fun and shit, so it will be easy to game.

You are still the same you and you are running the show. There are some cultural differences that you have to take into consideration - in some cultures girls are not so touchy/feely from the start, but you will see things for your self and calibrate it the right way. I am sure you will have the time of your life when you go to Sweden.

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Mate you really skipped going to Sweden because of this issue...

This phenomena about European girls liking only white males etc. I would say it's a generalization, but I know concrete examples where European girl didn't go out with a guy because he was not white. My sister had a brown guy (I think pakistani, not sure) hitting on her and she said to me that she would go out with him if he wasn't so fucking lame AFC so there was nothing with the color here. We are white Europeans btw. i have a friend who is Philippino and he's really not good looking, short skinny, unattractive. He fucks British girls all the time.

So you see that there are examples for failure of pick up European girls as a non European brown dude due to skin colour. But there are also cases where skin colour just doesn't matter. And I take it that you want casual relationships, where this will be even a smaller issue. However to say that it's completely untrue is delusional thinking cos people are superficial. Like you.

So my advice to you is the common sense one, approach any girl you like don't care about the skin colour. This is the only way to change your thinking about the subject, you can read any amount of shit on the internet it won't help you. You might have more rejections if you cold approach but if you approach based on IOIs then you won't have much rejections.

And for the love of God mate please stop being so superficial. I saw your topic about blonde girls also

no, I don't think I will EVER be going there because I heard women there exclusively get with White or Black men and other races are treated like shit and even laughed at by women

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