| Hey guys, workhorse here.
I'm going to just get right into it. There's a girl that I've had interest in for quite some time but can't seem to turn the corner into spending time with her. Once she says yes, I'm not worried at all. After countless experiences with other girls and getting educated in the PUA community, I'm prepared for my mid game. The question is...how can I get there? A bit of background info is required to understand my predicament.
I have always had a bit of interest in this girl by knowing her through friends and friends of friends. She ended up giving me her number a while back, but I found out shortly later that she was seeing someone. This threw me off at first because I didn't why she would allow others to so openly seek her out, but I decided to run with it. I communicated with her from time to time through texts and social networking but still knew she was involved with someone. Towards the end of last summer, I found out that she and her boyfriend had called it quits, so I decided it was my chance to move in. I texted her and tried my best to sway her into becoming interested(I had no knowledge of proper pickup at this point). Surprisingly, she seemed very interested. She showed tons of IOI's and I knew that it was only a matter of time until I could close the deal. She would often try and show me she had sufficient value in order to match up with me. For example, she would ask questions about the kinds of girls that I liked, I would answer, and she would ALWAYS connect herself some way with a quality that I said was interested in. Long story short, after a couple weeks of communicating, I planned to meet her up at a party. All seemed well when I finally did but I was a bit nervous when communicating with her in person. Although I didn't blow the situation, I didn't help my cause either. We ended up getting separated at the party and I went home. I asked her what happened the next day and she apologized for not spending enough time with me. It didn't phase me at first, but after a while she seemed to have no interest in hanging out anymore. At the time. I passed it off thinking that maybe she just wasn't attracted to me. She ended up getting back with her boyfriend a short time later and our communication stopped entirely.
But she continued to seek me out, even when she was in a relationship. Liking photos, doing anything on twitter to catch my eye. It was like she wanted me to text her. I chose not to. I eventually got into the PUA community and learned everything I needed to know. About a week ago, I texted her simply asking for information about a party. After a couple negs and false disqualifiers, I learned that she was single. She showed me immediate IOI's and I felt like I had to give it another chance. I've been keeping her interested by asking thought provoking questions and literally going step by step whenever I talk to her. She shows huge IOI's then goes back to seeming disinterested. I've never seen anything like it and maybe that's why I'm so determined to win her over.
Any ideas? Should I seem disinterested? Should I continue to pursue in usual fashion? Once again, I just need to get her in public and I have my mid game set. I just need to get there!
Any advice is appreciated and I welcome all who think they can help me out in a situation that makes me question whether the PU game works on everybody.
Thanks!
-Workhorse
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