so, this colleague was messing me around for about a year and this is how it all came to a head.

i'd stayed away from her for some time. next thing i know i see an email from her waiting for me at work after a couple of days off. she's asking if i can do her a favour and do her overtime cos she cant do it anymore. i ask why she waited 2 days for my reply when she could've asked anyone else in the office. she said she did ask someone else (who agreed to do it) but was waiting for my response. i asked why ask me when she already asked someone and when he already agreed. no answer. so for some reason i asked if i could meet her in the kitchen to 'underline' certain things. to which she agreed.

anyway, so we meet up and cut a long story short she asks me if i've moved on and found someone. for some reason i said yes to which she eventually replies 'i don't want to be your friend and i dont want to talk to you' to which i say 'well, that's that then' before leaving. i didnt talk to her again.

so the following week at a drinks do which she and her 2 sisters are at i'm talking to her sister. suddenly the girl breaks silence, giving me 'daggers' and demands to know what i'm doing talking to her sister' to which i reply 'oh so you're talking to me now', she then tells me not to talk to her sister to which i laugh and reply 'i'm not talking to you but i can talk to whoever i want in this room'. she suddenly jumps up and drags her sister away before declaring 'we were friends once, what happened?' before sitting me down on a sofa next to her and saying how she loved me (as a friend lol) AND THEN...she starts telling me how i'm too old for her and how this other guy at work rejected her advances AND how she was in LOVE with yet another guy at work (who was mates with the other guy) and how he even had a six pack and that she kissed him one time!!! i'm sitting there going 'why am i listening to this?' to which she says 'you're in love with M...'.(my ex) to which i ask 'what do you know about her? to which she replies 'you told me' (probably she's seen pictures of me and my ex on facebook and putting that with what i told her in the kitchen). so anyway, having had enough of this bullshit, i get up and walk out and go have a cigarette.

anyway, outside, i'm having a smoke and she suddenly follows and asks to puff on my cigarette!!! (she's a non-smoker) and starts asking for a cigarette...

later that night i asked her sister what that was all about (the girl dragging her sister away) to which she said 'maybe she doesnt trust you', to which i replied, 'why wouldnt she trust me' to which she replied 'why dont you ask her?' i went to ask but i couldnt find her. i think she went home. she's since left for another department in another area. thank god.

anyway, she apologised the next morning by facebook to which i told her not to worry about it before saying 'take care babes' and blocking her.

sheesh! anyway. anyone care to make sense of that?

Chick likes you BAD but doesn't know what to do about it. Quite obvious from the second paragraph. Her stories were an attempt to make you jealous. She was also jealous of her sister.

I feel like there's more to the story. Are you seeking some kind of actual advice?

ah, i've been asking advice about this chick for nigh on a year now and the general concensus was 'she's not interested' or 'your princess is in another castle'. this past year's been a total head fuck with this girl.

anyway, i asked her out last august, i even grabbed her hand and stroked it (which she stroked back) but still she said no. later claiming she was scared that it would go wrong. when i replied that i thought it would be okay she didn't answer and its been mind games ever since.

i do dig this chick BIG TIME. but what the hell else is there to do? i'm not going to sit there whilst she's talking about some other dudes. no way. besides i already told her (by facebook that same drunken evening) that i couldnt get over the fact that she was doing what she was doing with me (flirting) whilst she still had a bfriend. cos i'm scared she'll do the same to me. anyway ive blocked her now from facebook cos i was always waiting to see if she'd get in touch which she hasnt since i said take care babes.

i guess if you did have advice, what would it be? i'm thinking its gone too far now. ive said too much, she's said too much.

You got oneitis game more chicks and move on its obvious shes just stringing you along some girls just like to play head games, stop giving this girl anymore of your attention

I don't make much sense of it. It's long, inconsistent with reality and leaving important details out other than it seems like she is in to you based on what you've said