Im stuck . .

Yesterday i gamed this HOT overseas chick in the supermarket & i could of took her for a intense date and fucked her but i freaked out cos i have a gf.

Do any of you guys still game while having a girlfriend?

Or Is it wrong?

Jaffa!

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Go out and try on vagina's like your shopping for new shoes.
Have a FUCKING BLAST! You just got the gold hall pass, WEAR THAT MOTHERFUCKER OUT!

Is it morally wrong?
Yes, yes it is.

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It really doesn't matter as long as she's pretty.

It really depends on your morals man, to be honest I got a gf who I like a lot (i'm the center of her world) and when I go out I do game but I don't let it progress to the point where we fuck and I never talk to them after that night, I just like the hunt pretty much haha

^ This.

I'm not the cheating type unless it's a supermodel I'm cheating on a girl with, but seriously gaming is obviously harmless but getting to the point where you fuck the girl is like betrayal.

It really comes down to how much the relationship means to you, and like Themagicalone said, your personal morals.

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It really doesn't matter as long as she's pretty.

Gaming, no. Cheating, of course.

That being said, never put all your eggs in one basket. Even if you're married. Keep having fun with your friends, talk to women, befriend them - you'll never know what will happen. The nice thing about having a girlfriend is you don't have to worry too much about being put in the friend zone, you'll never know who's just been dying for you to become single.

As far as physically escalation, it depends on your relationship, but a good way to judge is ask yourself "Would I be okay if SHE was doing this with another guy?". If the answer is no, then back off. Karma is a bitch.

The real question is, why do you have a girlfriend? If you want to game other girls, then there is something missing and you probably shouldn't have a girlfriend. It is a symptom that something just isn't right. You are not stuck in a situation like being married with children. Most guys will settle with a girl, because they don't have the confidence that they can get something better. That is AFC stuff.

I would game but in a social way. The ideal man is one who could cheat but does not act upon it. The way I see it is that you are perfectly in your right to "game" but not act upon it. I do it all the time but I know I personally would never cheat. It keeps my skills sharp and it keeps me socially active.

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If you think what you're doing is wrong then it probably is

It depends how you've built the relationship from the beginning.
She's with you now cause she likes the qualities you've shown her thus far
If you've been open about gaming from the start i wouldn't stop.
If you haven't been gaming and she's your one-it i wouldn't start gaming full on. You may destroy the security that attracted her to a relationship with you.

Either way its good to be social. It depends on what your intentions are

The fact that you're asking this leads me to believe she would be upset with you gaming other girls. You should take a step back and think why you are asking this question at this point of your relationship.


Basically stay congruent with who you are and what you have projected on her.
If one day your ideal chick completely changed out of the blue and gained qualities you didn't like would you be happy?

Good Luck

I don't think there is a correct answer for this questions. Many years ago, when I was dating the women that became my wife, I did game, I did hook up with other girls, hell, I did cheat on her if you want to call it that. My attitude was I had my whole life to be married. Now, would I make it my "agenda" to go out and do this? No, these things happened naturally, for example, guys trip away, random strange night when she wasn't around, etc.

When I got engaged, this all stopped and then married. I am divorced now, but I can tell you this, it had nothing to do with it my prior actions before I got engaged....

I also think a lot depends on your age...when I was doing this I was in my mid to late 20s....I am now in my late 30s.

Take from it what you will...