Hi guys

very interested in your views of the following:

there is a girl at my work, on the same floor, but not in the same team. When she walks by I notice that she looked at me 'a bit too long'. Or when I ran into her, I feel that she is a bit nervous (surpressing blushing, etc.). But she gave me following IOI's:
- Eye contact:
- Asking for my name (i didn't tell, so she searched for me on the company's network, and walked to my desk to tell me that she found out what my name was);
- The first time I opened her. After this time, she started to talk to me, laugh about my dumm jokes,
- Everytime I see her, we joke around.

I negged her, a lot. But then after two weeks of flirting a bit/IOI's, I asked her to join me for a coke. SHe said no. I was surprised, because I expected that she would say yes.

Now I feel like I am falling for her (=oneitis) and everytime I see her and say stupid things/negs. And her response is getting uninterested.....

My view is: she was interested, she refused to have a coke with me was a test, and after that I couldn't come back strong, she is losing interest.

My female friend's view is: she was just being nice. No more than that.

What do you think and what should i do to get back in my game?

Good start would be telling your name next time a girl asks you.

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