Hi Guys,

I've been talking to a girl at work, we work at a bar. (She has a BF)

I'm a bit confused by her and just want an outside perspective by you guys.

We joke around alot and there has been a joke about us getting married, she plays along.
Her taking me out for valentines and her saying that i was "affair material"......
Also her saying she really really really (yes that many reallys) likes me.

She touches me (not in inappropriate places YET), not loads, grabbing my forearm and play hitting me when i tease her, and when i walk her back to her car (Don't really want her to get murdered or assaulted......) she walks really close to me and brushes up against me(it is cold so i might be taking it out of context), it is a big enough road to have plenty of space..

Now i have noticed she doesn't touch others.

Like i said earlier, she has a boyfriend, but never brings him up and avoids me hearing about him at all times, we have had one conversation about him, and she was saying she could leave him at any time...

I'm just unsure of how or if to progress with it.

I would consider her GF material , she has an awesome personality as well as looking hot.

She is definitely interested in you. The real question is: are you responding to her signals? If I were you I would be straight up to her and ask her if she likes me. Hope this helps. Take care man.

Do not come right out and ask her f she likes you, not smart at all it will kill the flirtation

Anyways its obvious she probably likes you, next thing is to set up something up with her 1 on 1 (drinks, a movie) and while your out slowly esclate. But I don't think you'd want to go out with her look at what shes doing now while she has a bf, shes stringing him along like he aint shit you really want to be the next one? Hit it and use as f*** buddies and game other girls on the side

We also talk about her boobs and ass, which kinda worries me as it could be that she is too comfortable around me.... and not worried what i think. How can build sexual tension ?

Look around on this site theres plenty of stuff about sexual esclation and my favorite way is dancing you can get her to dance with you at a club very easy to esclate

I worked with her last night, didn't really do much, just teased her, then complimented her when she least expected it, went down pretty well. She continued to touch and grab me, went in for a random hug (thought this might be bad at first)

While we were walking back she was cold, i offered my coat insincerely, she said yes, (i didn't give it to her, i was cold too!) douche move i know

But i offered my hand instead and she grabbed it and squeezed, only lasted for a short time

The thing that is abit worrying is what someone said earlier, she has a boyfriend and she is flirting like this?...

i'm 95% i'm not in the friend zone