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Ok so, i recently bought the the layguide. Seems good so far but a question i have is this. It says worship the 3 second rule. that u must follow it. That u need to show ur interest. But i've heard also that u dont want to let them know u like them. Like u dont want to just seem like an AFC trying to hit on them. I thought that was bad. So how do u approach within 3 seconds and not seem like some AFC? this is confusing to me what do i do? show interest or not?
There's always going to be different books giving different philosophies.
The 3 second rule is valid b/c if you set back and watch and/ or fantasize about a girl before you speak or over -think what you are going to say or how the conversation may go, lets just say for 2 minutes, you've already got your mind going in a bad direction b/c you are over thinking the situation. You are going to make it tougher on yourself.
Most men come across to average hot woman like they like them so when a man comes a long who doesn't act like they are the hottest thing ever, it can get in the woman's head. They may feel there is some interest but you don't have to make it so obvious you like them.