i have had this obsession now for a few months, all i think about is this girl that i have seen around my college campus. We've locked eye contact a few times but i think she's moved on now, i think she has a boyfriend. I use to fantasize about her and masturbate. i gained a addiction, as i would masturbate, i would get this high. I have now not masturbated for a month and would like to continue not to. But i get this high, i start feeling happy whenever i see her, i sometimes cant go to sleep without day dreaming about her, I have always wanted a girl friend, i have never had one, I'm 20 yrs old. this affects my school life and personal life. i don't have the confidence to go up to her and tell her what i feel, and i think its a little to late. i may seem like a creep. i get very shy around her, i start breathing heavy, at times i cant sit still around her, i get this anxiety attack. i want to move on, but somethings holding me back, i get very worked up and feel tried. i feel like i need a girlfriend in order to feel good about myself. i dont know her, she doesn't have any classes with me. i see her in the hallways or the library,

i need some help.

thanks for reading

Find her in the computer lab in the library and change the scene.

Sit down next to her and ask her if she knows how to log into jstor or some other journal that you need to do research. Use it as an opportunity to talk about what you are majoring in and ask her the same. Ask her to help you find some obscure article on something you are researching. If it works out, ask her if she wants to grab coffee with you at the library coffee shop/machine.

Get her to know you exist first and then go from there. Chances are that she'll remember you anyway.

What it is today with intense oneitis. Because of the pressure you've built around her in your head, its very unlikely you'll be able to get her for now. Try getting good at getting girls in general, then go back to her if you still feel like it.

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You lose if you don't have the confidence to speak to her.
You win if you go up to her and speak with her regardless of the outcome.

This is how I play the game. There are still times when I lose and this is because I don't have the time to talk especially in the daytime when I am working.

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