how do you approach a girls in the library. Im not talking about walking up to them and sitting down at there table. Today i was in the library and i sat down at a table. As i was reading i would notice sets of girls sitting next to me. Like they came in waves. They would sit within one sit away and try and act like they didnt sit there for me to talk to them. (they all seem like girls that would be into me) I would continue studying they would stay for awhile study then get up...within 5 mintues there would be another girl sitting in the exact spot. Do you say something as there sitting down because once they were sitted they wouldnt really give me any opening to talk to them. They would start studying. Am i supposed to stop what im doing to talk to them.

Also im not trying to really talk to a girl in the library around tons of people. Is this something I'm going to have to get over because if so....ok ill do it. It just seems weird because everyone studying and quiet and i would be talking. Also everybody could clearly see what was happening or at least every girl that was sitting in the area.

Have you tried situational openers?

Wow, it's hot in here.

If she looks over and smiles then reference something about her.

Just throw a comment out and see if they bite.

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thanks...one more thing, this kinda has to do with this but girls in general....OK so when a girl notices you sends iois, fluffs her hair,ect any of that should you make the move right then and there like shes trying to get you attention wants you to look at her, do you look at her and say something....usually wait and then it seems to late like they try and ignore you but they want you to talk to them.

I've been wondering how to game girls at the library. I'm pretty new at the whole PUA thing, but from what I've been reading and hearing I think I'm just going to try to keep eye contact for like 2 seconds( like if she looks at me to just look back) and smile. Then I think I'm, just going to try saying hi, you seemed pretty bored, so I just came over hear to say hi. Or something like hey, you seem pretty cool, so I felt like saying hi. ( I wouldn't recommend complementing her by saying you noticed that she was cute/pretty/hot because I think it would place the girl in a position of power.) Then, maybe sit down/pull up a chair, and try to start a conversation.

Or if there is a group of girls, you might want to try:
Hey girls, you seem like a secluded gang (I actually read this from someone else, but changed it a little) so I thought I'd come over to say hi. Then try to start a conversation with the entire group about whatever (if you can't come up with anything just try some conversation about the surroundings or something.) After a minute or two continue the conversation with only one girl (who you're most interested in.)

Make sure you don't talk to them to long (an hour is way to long, you might want to stick to around 10-20 minutes) and then try to number close. (If you stay to long it may seem like you have nothing better to do)

Hope I helped a bit.

I've been wondering how to game girls at the library. I'm pretty new at the whole PUA thing, but from what I've been reading and hearing I think I'm just going to try to keep eye contact for like 2 seconds( like if she looks at me to just look back) and smile. Then I think I'm just going to try saying "hi, you seemed pretty bored, so I just came over hear to say hi." Or something like "hey, you seem pretty cool, so I felt like saying hi." ( I wouldn't recommend complementing her by saying you noticed that she was cute/pretty/hot because I think it would place the girl in a position of power.) Then, maybe sit down/pull up a chair, and try to start a conversation.

Or if there is a group of girls, you might want to try:
"Hey girls, you seem like a secluded gang (I actually read this from someone else, but changed it a little) so I thought I'd come over to say hi." Then try to start a conversation with the entire group about whatever (if you can't come up with anything just try some conversation about the surroundings or something.) After a minute or two continue the conversation with only one girl (who you're most interested in.)

Make sure you don't talk to them to long (an hour is way to long, you might want to stick to around 10-20 minutes) and then try to number close. (If you stay to long it may seem like you have nothing better to do)

Hope I helped a bit.