i need some advise here, guys. there is this girl and shes making me thinking about quiting pu.

but there's a problem, i am not quite sure she likes me in that way.

we have never had anything sexual between us, but she has said that she find me attractive and she always says that loves talking to me, but sometimes when we talks she suddenly talks about what kind of guys she likes, and these things

i cant figure out if she likes me as a friend or boyfriend

please help me

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Sounds like to my your in the friend zone, not not sure. Couple of options.

#1 (Best one IMO) Keep her as a friend, take her out, and use her as social proof to hook up with other girls. If not, chances are she will bring other girls out when you guys hang, so game them.

#2 Next time your with her, escalate. See is she is responding.

#3 Most risky, but just come clean with her and let know whats up. You will either get her or loose her doing this.

If you don't have any female friends, #1 is the best way to go. If so, don't even try to escalate. Make it clear that you guys are only just friends to her. I was friend zone by a total hottie and we are now really close friends. And seriously, the hottest girls I have gotten with, including my girlfriend right now, were girls that I met through her.

Also, don't stop PUA until you get an actual girlfriend.

okay updated version:

we are having sex regularly now, and i have feelings for her, and she says that she have for me, i ask if she be bf and gf but she said she want some time to think and that she has a hard time being committed to one guy... but she also says that she wants me for herself, and that she would be mad og hurt if i fucked anyone else... i dont know what the fuck i should do???

help please guys, should i make an ultimatum or give her time to think, or what other options are there??

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This brings back memories hahah

First you shouldn't ever ask a girl to be your girlfriend, if she does she will ask you, it will take time but it will happen if she likes you.
You already asked her and she said not yet..This happened to me once and I tolerated it for a while and one day I snapped and said: "You can't behave like this, you're not my girlfriend yet you don't let me date other girls it just won't work" she got mad blablabla so i went out with a girl and made sure that she finds out, she got so damn pissed that even her friends told me that i'm an asshole right out of the blue haha. Few days later, she asked me to start a relationship with her.

Wish you all the best

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Huge red flag right there in the bold, usually these kind of girls are all in at first then get bored after a couple of months and find other options and I wouldn't give her an ultimatum, I'd probably still game other girls and have some bench players just in case the starter doesn't work out, but be patient and let her bring it up first when shes ready

Thank you for the replys... I also have to mention that we are very good friends and talks to eachother all day every day, and see eachother almost every day... She calls me nicknames like honey, baby, babe, wonderboy( her favorite movie when she was a children was hercules)... So as i see it we Are almost as close as you Can get to being in a relationship, or is it just me?

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Start getting sexual, use tons of kino escalate and watch her response...

NOT GETTING SEXUAL, will keep you in the FRIENDS ZONE...so switch it up! ALWAYS be sexual...always be SEXUAL.

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This.

i have been sexual with her many times, but i tried it even more today, and i got positive feedback on it, and she said that she wished that i would always do that... she even talk about me meeting her family and many other things, should i just keep chasing her and getting more and more sexual or what?

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