Quick background, been talking to this girl for a little over a month. Have been out together a few times, she comes over for movies, makes me food, etc... We haven't fucked yet, but it is inevitable. Or so I thought...

Last Sunday night she came over for a movie, but had to leave pretty early. Nothing sexual happened that night, as we watched it with my roommate and his girl (who is this girl's friend) in our movie room. As she is leaving, she asks me what I'm doing Friday night, and invites herself out. So Friday night rolls around, we go out pretty early because my roommate works as a DJ at the bar and he needs to set up and stuff. She was supposed to meet us out around midnight, but she got out of work early and rode with her friend to my house first.

So the night was going good until about 11pm, when this girl blacks out. Since I know the bartenders, I get pretty strong drinks and I get doubles but charged for singles. Its nice, but definitely backfired that night... She is only about 5'2" and doesn't weigh much. So I'm sitting with this girl at the bar while she is grinding my leg and sitting on my lap, have her friend come over and take care of her while I go to the bathroom. They go over to the DJ booth, she sits on a stool in there and passes out on my arm. So there goes my night, as I now have to babysit her since she decided to get too drunk. We rode with my roommate and he doesn't get done until 2am, so I just wait it out. Eventually she wakes up and says she has to throw up, at which point she gets up and tries to walk to the bathroom. She faceplants leaving the DJ booth because there is a step down, and now I am even more embarrassed. I pick her up and tell her friend to take her to the bathroom since I can't. She throws up, at which point it is time to leave so we get home and get her on a couch and she quickly passes out.

The next morning I get awoken to her climbing into my bed. She was sad that I made her sleep on the couch, and I told her I didn't want her throwing up in my bed. She tells me she feels like shit, I'm still tired at this point and fall back asleep. So we sleep for a bit, eat some breakfast, go back into my bed and fall asleep to a movie again. She finally leaves with her friend, and I guess she started balling her eyes out as soon as they left my house.

Her phone had died, so she texted me when she got home and said "Sorry for being an asshole last night ". I just say I had a good time at the beginning of the night and thanked her for apologizing, then told her I didn't want to sound like her father but to take it easy on the drinking next time. She told me to stop making her feel worse as she had been crying all day. Later on she says, "I'm never drinking again or coming over ". I texted her yesterday about the game, and the conversation really didn't go anywhere so I ended it. Haven't heard from her today, and she usually texts me in the morning.

So, do you guys think she is embarrassed, or has since lost interest? To be honest, I have no plans on dating this girl, she comes with too much baggage. But I'd like to keep her around as I grow my stable, its nice to have one you can count on when things get dull with the others. Thanks for any advice...

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thats embarrassment... everytime she see you shes gonna remember that night of throwing up and passing out. and sadly thats all shes gonna remember you for. think of it this way if youve ever seen the 40 year old virgin when steve carrell gets into the drunk womans car and she throws up over him, do you think in 2 weeks time if she saw him again, do you think she'll sleep with him? hell no all she'll remember is throwing up over him

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She's just following the social protocol, behaving the way she 'thinks' a normal girl should be behaving in the given situation. You played daddy, so she just followed suit. Had you teamed up with her and went, "I better have a word with _______ (bartender), I think he went overboard with those drinks. I was pretty smashed myself!" - then it would have been you and her vs. the bartender, or some other imaginary outside adversary. As it is, you made it you vs. her.

I see what you guys mean, I'm pretty sure she is still embarrassed about what happened. I didn't talk to her all day until she texted me a long message tonight that started with, "Hope you don't hate me?! I don't often do that :/ didn't eat and stressed out and didn't realize I was chugging my drinks I guess..." I asked her when we are hanging out again and she said ":(... Idk up to you" so I guess the ball is in my court again. We'll see what happens from here on out. We are all supposed to go to a concert in a month, already paid for my ticket. Like I said, I wouldn't mind keeping this girl around until I find someone better, as bad as that sounds. I guess my roommate told her friend (the one he is sleeping with) that I am really just looking for a piece of ass when we first met, so who knows if she knows that or not. I'm willing to bet she does.

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Guess I'll bump this to get a few more opinions...

She has been pretty distant this week, hasn't really initiated any contact and is on and off with responses. Tuesday the conversation went alright, I told her to come over Friday after I get out of work and she said maybe she will for a bit. Wednesday she was talking about how she had to bake some brownies for one of her classes, I told her to save some for me and she said she is making me my own batch. Then today she barely responded and couldn't really hold a conversation, but she said she was dying because she was sick and had to stay home from classes. I know she is studying hard for a test tomorrow, but the conversation is really lacking. Not sure if I should back off and wait for her to text me, or what. I think I'll text her tomorrow and see if she is coming over. If she says yes, great. If she says no, I'll cease contact and wait for her to initiate again.

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I'd say she's being immature about the situation and making it a bigger deal than it is. Call her out. Not in a rude way, but like, hey look...i don't care about what happened last time and it doesn't change my view of you. I've gotten drunk sometimes and worst happened to me. You've been acting weird lately and I know it's because you're embarassed but stop and just relax. Come over tonight. "
Then have sex with her for gods sake

Yeah I tried to get her to come over Friday but she said she was still sick and then the conversation ended. Haven't talked to her since then, so I'll ease off for the time being. On the plus side, had an awesome time going out this weekend.

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She told me earlier this week her ex started talking to her again and that is why she hasn't talked much. Her friend (the one my buddy is banging) doesn't like her ex, and that is causing them to be distant. I just told her to talk to her about it and work it out.

Turns out she knew I didn't want to get serious, which I didn't know. Told her I was afraid she was going to want something more if we had sex and I didn't want to feel bad about doing that. She said she is over relationships and just wanted fun as well. She tried to friendzone me, I told her if she ever wanted to have fun she knows where to find me. She then texted me yesterday trying to be cute and said she just wanted to talk. I was short with her, and she said she was kinda sad that we aren't going to be friends anymore. I asked her why, and she just said, "idk".

I feel good about how I handled things, she knows I am just looking to have fun and I think she'll be back when things don't work out with the ex. We are all supposed to go to a concert in a couple weeks, getting a limo to take us to and from and everything. I already have my eye on another girl that is going, I just hope this chick doesn't try to cockblock me. I have a feeling she will get jealous if she gets drunk.

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I must agree it's embarrassment. Even if you don't care she does. I had a situation, where I met a girl, she knew I was I into her and open to it. We had a great time on the first date, she drank more than usual I guess, she seemed fine, nothing like in your story. We bang, and we bang good! We even agree to see other again. W e have some plans, work schedules get in the way of our real date, but I hang for a little bit with her and gfs the early part of a Friday night. Then radio silence.

I couldn't figure it out. I still follow-up with her normally. Then one day she wants to get together out of the blue. We go out for some drinks, she tells me she really appreciated my classy follow up. I bluntly asked her if I did anything wrong to her. She says no, she was embarrassed we slept together so soon and just figured we were doomed to fail because of that. Women logic.

We're still in contact, even had a another bang session, but that will always be in her head

I also think it's embarrassment.

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Eh, this one is dead in the water. Like I said before, she has started talking to her ex again, who lives in a different state. My roommate told me today that they are basically dating now, but if she is happy that I'm happy for her. She was a cool girl, just someone I would never date seriously. We are still both going to a concert it two weeks, getting a limo with a big group of people. I have my eye on another girl who I heard was single, so we'll see how jealous girls can really get. I am also working on a bartender who is going to the concert, going to try to go home with her. The original girl doesn't like the bartender, which is a whole other story. It is due to her flirting with me while out with the original girl. I am going to try to get the bartender to come over to my group and see the jealousy factor explode. Never underestimate how jealous females get.

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