| I'm a busy guy with school and work. I work about 30 hours a week, and am currently taking 16 credit hours in school. So I don't have much time to go out and game. Therefore, I have rechanneled my efforts mostly to online game, and occasionally to field game in order to enhance my skills with women I meet off the internet. The goal is to develop a smooth and standard style which can yield maximum efficiency with online dating.
However, the reason I've decided to post this here goes beyond online dating. I've seemed to be given a unique opportunity. One day I was on the net and I realized that the women who responded to me best were women in their 30s. Given that 7 out of 9 of the new women in my message box were over 30 I decided to switch my efforts. Instead of messaging women who were my age, I decided that it was best for me to interact with older women. Initially I was skeptical of this idea, since my appeal to women 17-25 is almost non-existent. For a time I had believed that my lack of appeal was universal among women. However, one day during a field test I talked to 16 women. 8 of them were under 30, and 8 of them were 30 and over.
To my astonishment, the best results I received in the field were from the women 30 and over, but more importantly white women over 30. I had no clue why this is, or for what reason, but I decided to run with it. I number closed 5 of the women, and of those 5, 4 of them explicitly told me that they were over 30. I even k-closed one of them. So at that point, I said to myself, "damn I've been going at this all wrong for 3 years man". I've been chasing after women which aren't interested in me for whatever reason. And I personally don't care. I'm not the party type dude, I don't like drinking, and love politics. So these couple of things probably made me incompatible with most women in my age groups. Then I got to saying to myself "why fight against the current of a mighty river? Don't. Just flow with it".
To keep a very long story short, I'm trying to find good materials about online and text game, and then some awesome material about gaming women 30 and over. I've been looking around, but so far I haven't found much (for women 30 and over). I'm more content with books, but I'd appreciate guys with a pretty decent body of work in certain areas. I want to develop a standard doctrine for pulling women over 30 online and making it happen that way. I don't want like 80 books, just something that is comparable to a best book, or has the vast majority of what I need to know.
I don't want to spend all night reading because I have to read 100 + pages a night for class (mostly accounting), so I'd prefer if I was only referenced to a single book, or a single series of books. I want one for text and online game, and another for gaming women over 30. That together should pretty much solidify my stuff. If the best books for text and online are not one series, then feel free to put up the best for each.
Other than that, that's it. I'm just spending the next month working on text game, and pulling women off the web. Like I've said in the online section, I'll put my results in a month or so. Again, I don't want to spend a lot of time reading. I just want something I can skim and then do. Thanks a million guys.
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