yesterday i ran one set in a coffee shop. There was a girl sitting there alone saw her throught the window. I had my backpack and just decided to go for it.

I sit in front of her and open direct
1) she was green as she began smiling and laughing as soon as i opened

2) I told her i liked her watch but was like "is it real..nooooooo" just teasing her about it

3) asked her what she was studying and began going direct as soon as she started questioning who i was.

after a while talking i think i began to go tooo direct and flirtatious and she starts feeling like i'm a sleezball i never begin to fluff lol.

She breaks rapport and tells me she has to get back to her homework. I plow. Then she actually starts doing her homework and I wait a minute and reconnect. I hug her shes beggining to get turned off lol. I never get into fluff I go to direct and let it sit there too long

Going direct worked
a little flirtation worked, I can definately feel the vibe switches from my earlier interactions, once you go direct and flirty the whole undertone of the conversation switches. It definately works and gets your point across quickly.

What definately worked is telling the girl i want to be a motivation speaker (not a lie). Thats what I really want and its a DHV.
I've boiled a dhv down to anything interesting you say about yourself thats pretty much it.

I think that i need to be more playfull in my approach, if you can make her laugh you've got it in the bag said a natural i talked to yesterday. So for the rest of the week i just want to be playfull.
being playfull definately works

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I've kinda strayed away from journaling amidst my busy life. I hate having to sit at the computer and write and write and write but HEY! I think i need to stick with it and write everyday I litterally have been doing A WHOLLEEEE LOTTTTAAA approaches I'm talking talking to maybe 6 or 7 girls a day. I want to spend more time in field and less time reading about pick up. I'll update you today and tell you how the day goes. I've been improving lots. I know i'm on the right track.

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You came across as a alpha then you went beta. If she is attracted to you off the opener move escalate and be domaniate. If you go beta you lose her because shows incongruence. Thats the way It sounds like this went. If you can't pull it off yet. You need to get number and move on. Meet text her and start over. At which point all she knows is she likes you.

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your right, really been doing alot alot alot of research and ALOT ALOT ALOT OF SARGING, i'm learning so much

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