Hey i met this girl late in a club we were both really drunk, after about 20 mins dancing took her back home, had sex many times etc. It left on a bad note as her phone ran out of battery and she looked on facebook later in the day (6pm ish), which was filled with her friends and family thinking she'd gone missing and they even phoned the police. Shes 25 btw anyway..

I texted her later and a few days after to not make her feel like a slag, the texts keep revolving around that. Which im trying to change to more cocky funny, as it could just be a one night stand but im moving in around a month and wouldnt mind hooking up some more.

Well how often should i text to try build attraction and comfort? She always gets back but theres a bit of a defensive barrier up.

Thanks.

You just one night stood her...

what happened was u made urself attractive enough just for SEX....now u want to go out with her?....ermmm

Build comfort/rapport with her, and become interested in whats inside her not just her looks/not just having sex...make urself genuinely interested in her aspirations and so on...

Then Id say Id be okay for whatever else is needed....she feels used...u need to make her feel like it was special.

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