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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 7:04 am 
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Hi players. I was grabbing my dinner this evening at KFC. It is a very small KFC, and there was a huge line-up. The second I walked in I notice this cute looking girl who was taking order from the customers. I looked at her and she was looking back at me for a sec(While taking orders from other customers ooo~~~ :P ). I think she is my type, but there was a huge line-up and I was in a hurry so I didn't talk to her.

So the next time I go to this KFC, I'm ganna do something about it, because they way she looked at me tells me that it is an IOI. And right now, I need Tips or even better, step by step from you players on how to get this cute looking girl :) Thanks in advance!


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 9:31 am 
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Just chill nothing to worry first of all when ever you go to the KFC brought some beautiful flowers for her and if you get any chance just show how much you like her. May be some day she will get back to you. All the very best. :roll:


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 5:03 pm 
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Don't make the same mistake I did!
I had read on various pages that waitresses, bartenders etc. get hit on all the time,
so it's usually better to let her get comfortable with you over a number of meetings.
So in other words they are saying don't ask for her number the first time you meet her.
But there is a balance to that theory which I found-out the hard-way!
I've been flirting with this very sweet and very cute girl who worked at a local bagel shop. This morning I was fully intending to ask her out. When I went to the shop, I didn't see her. So I asked one of the other girls when she is scheduled to work again?
To my horror, I was told that she had recently left the job to work as a receptionist elsewhere! Now I'm kicking myself for dragging it on for too long!
So learn from my mistake and don't wait too long to ask her out!


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PostPosted: Wed Feb 13, 2013 7:23 pm 
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Don't make the same mistake I did!
I had read on various pages that waitresses, bartenders etc. get hit on all the time,
so it's usually better to let her get comfortable with you over a number of meetings.
So in other words they are saying don't ask for her number the first time you meet her.
But there is a balance to that theory which I found-out the hard-way!
I've been flirting with this very sweet and very cute girl who worked at a local bagel shop. This morning I was fully intending to ask her out. When I went to the shop, I didn't see her. So I asked one of the other girls when she is scheduled to work again?
To my horror, I was told that she had recently left the job to work as a receptionist elsewhere! Now I'm kicking myself for dragging it on for too long!
So learn from my mistake and don't wait too long to ask her out!
Thanks for the reply, but any tips on how to approach her in the first place tho?


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2013 5:12 am 
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On a monday, you can say something like "How was your weekend? Did you do anything fun?" If she says she did nothing but sit at home alone and play "SimCity"
Then you get some insight into if she has a bf and what she likes doing for fun. Also, just joke around about anything! Don't take it too serious. If you're having fun talking with her, she'll enjoy talking with you!
Practice chatting-up &/or flirting with lots of women. This help to make you more confident doing it. Lastly, don't put all your eggs in one basket. She's a girl you're working on, but you should always have other girls you're working on, so if one doesn't pan-out, it's never the end of the world.
Like the girl I waited too long for, even though it sucks that I'll probably never see her again, I am always working on several ladies, so it's not the end of the world for me that she didn't pan-out due to my mistake. I'll just learn from it and move-on the the next ones!


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2013 8:30 am 
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On a monday, you can say something like "How was your weekend? Did you do anything fun?" If she says she did nothing but sit at home alone and play "SimCity"
Then you get some insight into if she has a bf and what she likes doing for fun. Also, just joke around about anything! Don't take it too serious. If you're having fun talking with her, she'll enjoy talking with you!
Practice chatting-up &/or flirting with lots of women. This help to make you more confident doing it. Lastly, don't put all your eggs in one basket. She's a girl you're working on, but you should always have other girls you're working on, so if one doesn't pan-out, it's never the end of the world.
Like the girl I waited too long for, even though it sucks that I'll probably never see her again, I am always working on several ladies, so it's not the end of the world for me that she didn't pan-out due to my mistake. I'll just learn from it and move-on the the next ones!
Thx for the reply bud. my problem is meeting girls... sometimes (rarely) when I feel good, I'll be in god mode and talking to chicks getting numbers going on dates and shit. but most of the time I just chickened out.... I hope i can get good soon before I leave college, because campus is a fking gold mine.


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2013 2:22 pm 
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That's why practicing is a really good way to get more confident.
When I say "practicing", I mean just strike up a convo with any chick just for the
sake of having a fun convo. With no expectations beyond that.
If you're thinking to yourself that this is just practice, nothing more.
Then you'll realize it doesn't matter what the outcome is.
It's just having fun talking to new people. The more you do it, the more comfortable you'll get with it. Then after a few practice sessions, as you get more comfortable, take little chances and try actually flirting a little bit. Build it up from there. Some people are busy and have things on their mind so they don't wanna talk much. Don't take it personally, just remind yourself that it's not your fault, it's their issue. Then some girls you'll be able to tell that they are enjoying chatting with you! Those are the ones that you try to move it forward with.
If you make a mistake or even crash and burn. It's no big deal, because it's just "practice"! Just learn from your mistake and practice on the next chick you run into.
Since you're in college and surrounded by girls all the time, it's the perfect situation and opportunity to practice on them!
If you get the cold shoulder, just remember that women like what they like oftentimes for no good reason. I've been turned down by average looking chicks and I've been layed by totally gorgeous chicks(even though I'm not the best looking guy!). Some girls have a certain look they like. With other girls, it doesn't matter what you look like. Some girls will only date guys their age. Some girls have a thing for older men. So if a girl blows you off.
Just say to yourself "Next!" and practice on the next girl. No worries mate!


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PostPosted: Thu Feb 14, 2013 6:07 pm 
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That's why practicing is a really good way to get more confident.
When I say "practicing", I mean just strike up a convo with any chick just for the
sake of having a fun convo. With no expectations beyond that.
If you're thinking to yourself that this is just practice, nothing more.
Then you'll realize it doesn't matter what the outcome is.
It's just having fun talking to new people. The more you do it, the more comfortable you'll get with it. Then after a few practice sessions, as you get more comfortable, take little chances and try actually flirting a little bit. Build it up from there. Some people are busy and have things on their mind so they don't wanna talk much. Don't take it personally, just remind yourself that it's not your fault, it's their issue. Then some girls you'll be able to tell that they are enjoying chatting with you! Those are the ones that you try to move it forward with.
If you make a mistake or even crash and burn. It's no big deal, because it's just "practice"! Just learn from your mistake and practice on the next chick you run into.
Since you're in college and surrounded by girls all the time, it's the perfect situation and opportunity to practice on them!
If you get the cold shoulder, just remember that women like what they like oftentimes for no good reason. I've been turned down by average looking chicks and I've been layed by totally gorgeous chicks(even though I'm not the best looking guy!). Some girls have a certain look they like. With other girls, it doesn't matter what you look like. Some girls will only date guys their age. Some girls have a thing for older men. So if a girl blows you off.
Just say to yourself "Next!" and practice on the next girl. No worries mate!
Thanks! I'll try my best.


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