Okay, anyone who has gone out on Valentine's Day knows how hit or miss it can be and that sucks. So, how do you turn around a lackluster time and make it a night to remember?

I'll tell you in a minute, but first there are a few things you should understand about the holiday. Valentine's Day is one of two holidays (the other is Christmas) where a guy doesn't get away with being an asshole to his girlfriend. Why she chooses to notice she is dating an asshole on this artificial day of love is anyone's guess. There are 364 other days where she lets it slide…Anyway, what happens around this time is guys either decide not to put in the effort or there is some other complication like he's not sure what to get her because they have only been dating a short time. Some guys will even break it off so they don't have to deal with it and then try to get her back after. So her big romantic day comes and then nothing. No flowers. No candy. No presents. Nothing. She's so pissed she breaks up with her guy.

Now, it is usually the guys in her social circle who stand to benefit from her newly single status. This is not very helpful unless she is already in your social circle. So, what if she isn't? What if you don't have any girls in your social circle who are about to become newly single? What do you do?

You hold an Anti-Valentine’s Day Party.

Why?

There is no place else that will give you such a good male to female ratio as one of these parties. It also doesn't hurt that they are all horny and lonely girls either.

How does it work?

Basically you are going to gather your social circle for a double feature. Everyone gathers in someone's living room and watches the movies in the spirit of an Anti-love. It is a boycott of the schmaltzy holiday. I'd recommend one romantic movie and one comedy or a popular horror movie. Stuff people have watched a thousand times so nobody is really interested in the film, but rather the camaraderie of like-minded people.

Now you are going to make sure you sit by the girl you like so you can both share your anti-love holiday sentiments. Towards the end you're going to confess to her you just couldn't do it and you got her a Valentine's present. It should be something inexpensive, but something she will personally like. Then let nature take its course.

Now, I know what you're saying, “But I don't have a girl in my social circle or a social circle big enough to have a party.”

That's an easy fix too. All you're going to do is go out on a night a lot of people will be out, like tomorrow for Mardi Gras and invite them to your party.

What you'll need:

You will need a pen and a pad of post-it notes.

Write out the location and bad pick-up line on some of the notes. The location will be a bar or restaurant, near your place, where you'll have the Anti-Valentine's Day Party. Now, you'll go around making jokes about the bad pick-up lines and the holiday in general. The blank notes are for her to write down the worst pick-up lines she has ever heard or lines that she has used. After you are done having fun and joking around get her to go give her post-it to another guy or girl and invite them to the party.

Fast-forward to the 14th and you have a small group of like-minded people gathered who are interested in doing nothing more then getting laid. Just don't blame me if it ends up turning into a full-blown orgy. Have fun!

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Although I have to say: quite interesting how you thought of this idea. But i'm also curious, is this something you have actually done yourself, or just something you think of in theory, and put it in the PUA Lounge to see what other people think of it?

If the answer is yes, how did that party go? Did you have success with 1 girl or multiple girls? I'm curious.

Wallie

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Brilliant, funny and insidious... I love it ! Well done, although this plan requires a person to be a little more advanced in his pickup skills. Some guys can't even cold approach yet.

Any ideas on a rookie-proof plan ?

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Sorry it took me so long to get back to you. I was running a free book promotion all day and then I went out to eat.

I tried to tone it down a bit and add to the fun factor. It works with cold approach or social circle. If I were you I'd try to merge into an existing social circle. If you get a fun vibe going the girls will take care of the majority of the work when it comes to getting people to show up. You want to try and keep the male to female ratio fairly balanced and the whole thing fairy small, maybe 10 to 15 people.

I've done this a handful of times and I have several girlfriends who have done the Anti-Valentine's Day party as well. It is really popular these days. I'm not sure, but I think Hollywood even grabbed hold of it at one point. One time it wasn't for Valentine's Day, but instead it was a "lonely Christmas" party with a group of Asian exchange students. They didn't have the desire or the money to go home for the holidays. That one had strip twister and movies...Oh God. THAT was a good night. As for results the only time I wasn't successful was the last time and that wasn't due to failure. I just wasn't attracted to the two girls that propositioned me for a threesome. And they must have really been dogs because I was drunk at the time...

Anyway, I'll shut up. If you're going to give it a go tonight is your best bet at setting it up. Fat Tuesday specials should have people out on the streets tonight.

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