Hello all, my name is Steve, am 35 and from upstate NY. New to the game as I was married by 20 and never really experienced having to pick up women. Divorced now and starting basically from scratch. Any help or tips would be good. Just made an online POF account that after reading some online dating tips from others on here, I am going to re-adjust my entire profile there. I am, as my screen name states, the cable guy. I have had some success with female customer's in the last couple years doing this, but it could effect my job, so I do have to be careful. Looking to gain that confidence while out shopping at the grocery store and getting a number out of the blue.