Location
I'm located in Quincy, MA. A suburb outside of Boston. I've lived here for 19 years, with the exception of two other places, and a couple summers I spent doing different things.
I'm fairly known around Quincy to my age demographic, but it's a good sized city. Population no more than 100,000 people.
Age
I'm 19. That hasn't stopped me from moving cross-country, or starting a business. Age is just a number, so what?
Getting into "The Game"
Curiosity. Something about going out on weekends, and always coming back with stories about who my friends fucked is starting to leave an unsettling taste in my mouth.
I'm not a shy person, nor can I say I don't know how to talk to girls. I should add I'm not a virgin either.
Entering adult/manhood is showing me more, and more everyday that my youthful, energy filled, days are timed, and the same story goes for women. It's a never ending sea of fish,
but you can never start fishing too early.
Practice
Today's my first day learning the art of PUA. I got my hands on a copy of Paul Janka's - Attraction Formula, and it shined a lot of light on my outlook on women, dating, confidence, etc.
I spent the whole day reading the e-book, as I imagined different ways I could apply myself into Paul's different pick up situations.
This is something I would very much like to continue pursuing & after a little more time, and research I ended up here.
Methods
Seeing as this is my first day as an artist I don't have any clear cut methods yet, but from what I've read, and what I've experienced I'm into the following;
- Phone Game - Totally crucial, the best place to find women now a days is on their phone. Right?
- Cold Approach - The difference between me & other guys is actually talking to the chick we're all drooling over.
- Mystery - Keeping a hidden element to yourself is intriguing to a female. It gives her cause to probe you for more information about me. I have a soft spot for chicks that dig me.
Hobbies
Recently I've been spending a lot of my time putting everything back together. Not that it ever fell apart, but my life has taken a lot of twists, and turns in the last year, and my hobbies/passions are the things I've never given up on.
They include professional photography, music, writing, and design.
Goals
- With the help of PUAF I really hope to get a better understanding of what pick up artistry is.
- Meet other men who're experienced in the field, with beneficial tips, and can offer game changing wisdom.
- Meet women, experiment, and share my stories with people who care.
The Good Stuff
I am Asha. I'm a 19 year old, entrepreneur, photographer. I'm building an intuitive website/blog that'll revolutionize my life and business.
(if you're interested in learning more don't hesitate to contact me)
Apart from all the level one information I gave you above there's some more juicy stuff you should know about me.
I used to have an ex-girlfriend that I dated for 2 years + months. We've since broken up for almost a year now coming May 2013.
I've had sex with 3 girls; My ex, a co-worker friend who I worked on for about a month before we had sex, and a ONS with a girl who came on to me, fucked, then we never spoke again.
Right now I live with my mom. Long story short, I went to college for a semester at AMC, moved to Santa Barbara, California, and moved back to Massachusetts after financial complications with the school.
I have since started a business, and is working up the tiers to start making sufficient revenue to move out, and get my own apartment, along with fueling an active & engaging dating/sex-life.
I'm not dying for information, nor am I in a rush to get laid. I want to learn what's necessary, then apply my knowledge in the field, hopefully with successful results.
As a photographer I can honestly say I've never used to my camera to "creep" on females. I do like to shoot glamour on occasion, but I've never in any way tried to mix my business, with my pleasure ... (
thoughts?)
I also understand from Paul's book that the biggest part about being a great PUA is embracing your natural self, and letting things go where they need to go. I can channel the conversation in the direction of sex, but we're not touching if we're still talking, right?
I really want help taming my game, and learning how to become a stronger more impressionable character.
Thanks for taking the time to read my introduction, and I hope to chat with all of you throughout my journey.
Cool guy, huh?