Text went like this: I played it C&F and I don't know how to respond.

Me: I'm not always a nice guy. Sometimes I'm a bad boy too
Her: oh really? You take the stairs instead of the elevator?!
Me: please! I'm a real bad boy. When a door says push, I pull until it opens in fear
Her: wow. I don't know if I can hang out with you. I don't like bad influences
Me: not everyone can handle me. It's too bad though, I thought we could make a great team
Her: I'm sorry too


What the hell? Did I mess up somewhere? What do I say back to that?

You lost some congruency here I think. It seems a bit too try-hard.

She's doing two things here

a)She's trying to out alpha you
b)This is a bullshit test

Don't jump through her hoops.

Thanks for the reply man. How do I reply?

I would say don't. Wait for her to send another message within 1 or 2 days and if that doesn't happen call her and chat her up for 2 minutes if you can. Hopefully you will have sufficiently DHV for her to answer already. If not, move on.

Really, I think you should look at this as a learning experience and dissect what happened. The girl wanted to see if you were really Alpha or not. She gave you frame to work with the stairs comment but you ignored her to maintain a congruency which is exactly why that's where you probably lost it. A real Alpha wouldn't need to keep reiterating his frame (i.e the badboy image). You should have used her comment about the stairs to make some banter and lightly joke around. You should have said something after the stairs comment like "Oh Yeah, I like to walk on the wild side." This would have been consistent with your C/f frame and given her the impression that you know it's a bullshit test.I am assuming that you read David Deangelo since your using cocky/funny. Well there's a part where he mentions how girls get upset when guys "don't get it" and this is exactly it. When a girl throws you a test, be in on it.

shes just joking with you homie... what the fuck are you sweating about

lol wtf

KJ at its best

Rather say "yes" instead of "don't". The girl really answered your thoughts. The next thing is the girl was putting you forward her thoughts and you completely followed those and then let the girl have the final say.

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You should know exactly where the girl is and reaction of the girl. When the reaction is positive, then you should talk and approach immediately. Women value strength and similarity. If you wait then it changes the relationship even in the future.

Hey guys, I diffused that situation but I have another one on hand with the same girl. I dont get it sometimes haha. She sets me up for sexual texts, at least I think, and then insults me when I go for it?

We were talking about her going to the strippers and I said win me some posters

Her: Haha well tahts a lot to win if Im getting some for you and myself
Me: You better be good at throwing loonies then! I'll make it worth your while
Her: Oh Oh! A strip tease?!?
Me: Well you gotta take me out somewhere nice first! im not that easy you know. If you can do that, then I'll show you how a professional does it
Her: Uh oh, you're starting to sound like a prostitute. I dont wanna deal with no pimps

Do i just say "most normal people go on a date before they start strip teasing each other" or something like that? Neg her? I need examples of what to say please. Thanks bros

Just picture you are talking to her face 2 face

Slam her back in her place

>> Hope you carry a lot of pocket money then

Or >>> do something along her pimp angle

Don't let her put you in her "box" remember your the great shark, she's the lesser shark

Awesome post man. Thanks for the idea and the help. Used it word for word (hope thats ok). Much appreciated