I've been picking up numbers left and right. Sometimes I don't do so hot so I understand why they don't come through. I'd be too much in my head, which is hard as hell to break out of. Other times, I leave a really good impression; I'm making her laugh, I'm making her friends laugh, I DHV...but then after I get her number we'll be texting and it'll be good. We set a date, but they just don't come through. This happened recently to me and this one chick who's number I picked up. We set a date for yesterday and she said that she'd let me know if she could chill or not and I didn't even get an answer from her. It sucks cuz I know I'm a good looking guy, I have a good work ethic, I'm optimistic, I don't give up easily, I'm very healthy, I workout...but even when I go after girls that I know I can do better than, I'm not getting results. It's all been the same and I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.

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Most things we're afraid of are simply challenges, so smile because you'll become stronger from it.

It sounds like you have good core confidence. Maybe the problem is in your text game. Post so transcripts of your messages with these girls.

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[quote="AlphaConfidence"][quote="Thessius"]I've been picking up numbers left and right. Sometimes I don't do so hot so I understand why they don't come through. I'd be too much in my head, which is hard as hell to break out of. Other times, I leave a really good impression; I'm making her laugh, I'm making her friends laugh, I DHV...but then after I get her number we'll be texting and it'll be good. We set a date, but they just don't come through. This happened recently to me and this one chick who's number I picked up. We set a date for yesterday and she said that she'd let me know if she could chill or not and I didn't even get an answer from her. It sucks cuz I know I'm a good looking guy, I have a good work ethic, I'm optimistic, I don't give up easily, I'm very healthy, I workout...but even when I go after girls that I know I can do better than, I'm not getting results. It's all been the same and I have no idea what I'm doing wrong.[/quote]


It sounds like you have good core confidence. Maybe the problem is in your text game. Post so transcripts of your messages with these girls.[/quote]

Thanks bro, will do.

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Most things we're afraid of are simply challenges, so smile because you'll become stronger from it.

you'll get your results, patience and hard work

Honestly, if number closing girls doesn't get you any conversions, then start picking up girls in other ways. Go for instadates. Try online dating.

Your problem is very common and its usually due to not building enough rapport while you are in set and relying on the number close to bail you out later, which doesn't work.

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[quote="puaninja"]Honestly, if number closing girls doesn't get you any conversions, then start picking up girls in other ways. Go for instadates. Try online dating.

Your problem is very common and its usually due to not building enough rapport while you are in set and relying on the number close to bail you out later, which doesn't work.[/quote]

Well, you know what that means...I just gotta get up and go at it again.

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Most things we're afraid of are simply challenges, so smile because you'll become stronger from it.