Hey, just arrived to this place so I hope this is the right place to ask this question. If not, I`m sorry


Here`s my problem. I met this great girl on a bus, well actually I approached her on a street but I first saw her on a bus and she was the one making eye-contact, otherwise I wouldn`t even notice her probably.

From the time I start talking to her everything was perfect. She talked like she knew me for ages, lot of eye-contact, smiling etc.. From then I saw her about 5 times, I also got her number with ease.

Now the problem. Everytime I`m around her now, she acts kinda a strange. I have to start the convo usually, she doesn`t say much, she looks at me under eyelashes and she always get a smile on her face wheneever I say something. I have no idea but I`m starting to think about that she likes me but is shy like hell. One day she actually blocked me on facebook and that same day she posted this on her wall :"It`s easy to fall in love, but it`s hard to say it". I have no idea if this is connected with me or not but why would I be blocked then? She also doesn`t like texting and usually doesn`t respond on messages. Maybe shy and nervous again? I really don`t know. In real-life, everything looks like she likes me. She is not from my country and doesn`t have much male friends if any at all. I`m maybe like one of three males that likes her photos on facebook for example and she always hangs with one or the other girl. Yesterday she posted a picture on facebook and picture was saying :"I feel like I`m in love but not sure who the guy is" so I came up with a comment and wrote it`s milka chocolate because she said to me she eat tons of it She didn`t reply but I got a reply from her friend to which I talked once and she wrote me :"Okay, let it be chocolate, but maybe it is "somebody" else " This friend was kinda teasy when I talked to her in person too telling me things like she doesn`t need me around, unless a girl I like would invite me to come and this kind of things. Ou, and that girl was there too.


I hope you understand my problem here and situation and have some idea on it. I`m planning to tell this girl I like her and would like to get to know her better and ask her out but I have no idea how to proceed in this kind of situation and what exactly to say, so if you can help me I would be more than happy.


THANKS!

best case scenario - she loves you

worst case scenario - she loves you

If you are in High-School or less this makes sense, anything beyond that she's crazy

Hey, thanks for reply. We are at University, we are both 20 and yeah, we are at the same University. We just don`t study the same thing.

Do you honestly think she likes me? What is it then? Is she so shyyyyyy?? It would make sense but the texting thing doesn`t make any sense to me at all, she is usually ignoring the messages. This is the only thing I have no idea about. I actually asked her last time why is she so quiet and I got a pretty smile on her face.

I don`t think she is just trying to be friendly whiletalking to me because I can sense that she is not that relaxed when I˙m around. She probably wouldn`t smile at literally every word I say. My bet is on shyness or maybe is she playing hard to get and testing me how far am I prepared to go. I have no competition because she always study now, there are many exams and she is not going out at all for some months now.

The key to any good PUA is not to revel in the fact that this girl may or may not like you but to rather attract her to you through seductive means.

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it's really tough, but thats why we are on this site and studying this shit, the ones you have instant attraction for we all (afc) usually fuck up and the ones you don't really care about instantly you end up having them like puppy dogs, gotta learn how to get the ones you are attracted to acting like the puppy dogs, it's a game...

You solved your own problem. Treat the ones you are attracted to the same way you treat the one you don't care about.

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Become your own man, stop waiting for the sky to shit out gold.

It`s really hard to figure out what`s in a person`s mind and it`s good to hear some opinions.

Now can someone please tell me a good way to ask this girl out. Like if she is really that shy would it be effective to just say to her I like her etc??

I would just ask her to join me at something i'm going to do anyways, but related to my goals in life, something she can help you out with e.g. if ur a photographer invite her to help you take some shots or if u play some instrument u can invite her to help you write some songs, you figure it out it depends on what u do, since ur in university you have lots of options.. That's the best thing for first dates.. my opinion

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