I tend to not really have problems with walking up to women at the club, especially when rolling. The only problem I noticed it's hard to really tell if they are single, or with someone, etc. Like the last two weeks, I usually ask my homeboy, if I should go for it, because honestly he can pick up more signs than I could perceive. To be frank, I guess you can say, no one has ever really taught me the ways to connect with them, tell them interesting stories, etc. When my homeboys offered to do it, they always forgot and never did.

Let me give you something that happened on Friday this past week. I was chilling with my mates at a club and was in the hookah area. We are at a table smoking on the hookah. Some decent quality women would sit down and whatnot. One really caught my eye and I wanted to talk to her. I just talked as normally, but this was before I really wanted to try with this one. So, I asked my homeboy if I should and he nodded yes, because she was just by herself and that was pretty much it. She would leave and come back. So, I tried getting where she came from and she told me. I tried to make some conversation on where she lived to keep the conversation going. Wasn't really going to do the 20 question, but just a few to get a conversation really going. When looking at her while talking, iirc, she would look at me then go back to looking around. Which, I guess you could say I was boring her. I'm not a really good bullshitter, so I can't make up shit on the spot and make it look like it really happened.

So, I guess, what I really am getting at is basically getting past the introductions and keeping her wanting to focus on me. My intents really aren't at trying to get them into bed, but rather get out there and dance close to her and whatnot. If it got to the end part (successfully gaming), then it happens, you know? I know it won't magically happen overnight, so I'm not expecting that. I just wanna know how to keep them interested without looking as the creepy, needy, or try to expose any intentions, except maybe getting them to dance. The only two other problems I have is reading signs that women give off. Like if I'm doing something right, or wrong and knowing when to stop trying, like if I already got them interested per-ce, know when to keep it going, rather than pushing them away, because I can't tell if I already got her interested.

I know this might seem a lot of shit and I'll probably be flamed for asking stupid questions, but yeah.