Hi guys, I'm new to pickup but know the basics so I have a problem.

It all started about a month ago, this girl I am friends with and go out drinking every week with started giving me IOIs and was all over me on a night out. Because of fear of rejection I didn’t pull the trigger and Kiss close her. My mates said I was even an idiot. Since then I've been teasing her none stop and she loves it, I kino a lot with her example being slapping her hand when she does something wrong, stroking her face, touching her hair and she seems very open to it she even initialises it at times such as punching me in the leg softly, slapping me lightly when I’m cocky funny etc.

The problem happened last week I promised her on her birthday Id buy her a bottle of wine whilst I was really drunk and then got thrown out of the pub for being too drunk, learnt my lesson from this drink less yes . I then found out that after I got kicked out of the pub she slept with another guy that night. This doesn’t bother me a whole lot I was out with her again this week teasing her and doing a lot of kino with her, you could see that she was really into it we always have strong eye contact its even a bit seductive eye contact. Whilst in the club her and her mate(female) gave each other a little peck on the lips. Where I responded with "Where's my Kiss" cockily both of the kissed me on the cheek is that me friend zoned?

The question I have is should I ignore her party and not buy her wine since I don’t want to seem too easy and needy. Should I disqualify myself and say things such as "You and me would be perfect if you were a brunet shame you're a blond". I don’t want to come off as needy all though I have come off a bit needy at times I think. How would you guys escalate things further and get the kiss close/F close. And what to do about her party any clever PUA wit I could use.

PS I'm an average looking guy a bit overweight and she's very pretty but not a 9 or 10 probably a 7 to 8 at best. We haven’t known each other that long probably a few months all this flirting started about a month ago.

Thanks a lot guys. And sorry for the essay.

This may be my first official post but I have been hanging around PUA community for the last 6 years.

Just go for it go to her party. Kino and flirt as much as possible and don’t by her the wine tell her she doesn’t deserve it, and then think of a sexual reason why she doesn’t deserve the wine this should drive her crazy. Then flirt with her friends right in front of her and hopefully K close one of them, this should make her realise what she's missing out on.

Hope this helps

Thanks for that Green101, anyone else got any clever things I should say or do to win this girl over especially with her birthday? My current plan is to go later and say I'm busy so cant make it to the beginning of the party which is true since I want to watch the Real Madrid vs Manchester United game any advice would truly be appreciated.

I also know she will be out on Tuesday in the same place as me how should I handle the situation freezout and not give her much attention, or should I kino and tease as much as possible and bring up sex as much as possible?

Thanks for the advice guys.

Guys fall for this all the time.. They don't take control and they are afraid of getting rejected! You are probably thinking
" What if she sees me a cool dude to hang out with? I dont want to lose her friendship.. " You will find cooler chicks.. Don't worry
" Hmm, but I took so long.. now it will be weird" Yes. The more you wait the more it becomes weird.. Go for it next time!! If she rejects you, you will get upset for a bit and you will move on.. Trust me
Anyway, once you notice there is a sexual flirty vibe going on between you and her escalate things slowly, until you get to kiss her and f-close.. Start with touching her hand while talking in the bar.. Then put your hand on her leg like it's normal.. Just keep moving on with that until you hug her.. Later tell her she smells good.. by that time, if she is responsive to all these then there is no way in hell she will reject the kiss.. Be the one leading.. always!

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In this world, you don't get what you deserve but what you fight for!

Just go for it. if you get the kiss, awesome! if you don't, well there are other chicks.

another thing i have learned is to never ask them questions, just lead the way. make it happen. it shows confidence.

dont ask if she wants to dance, just grab her hands and take her to the dancefloor!

and haha i'm sure madrid will win that game but i also like man u because of van persie and chicharito, but we'll see.

good luck and please let us know what happens with the girl!