So the title sais it all. I've had girls freinds and it was so easy getting them because they all approached me first. When i girl does this i get really cocky and confident and i feel comfortable with them because they know i look young and were obvious about being interested. But looking as young as i do, i always asume a girl has to have a fetish for it, the girls i dated were either younger or looked young like me. I wana start dating tall and mature women my age. I go to college and trying to find work part time at the moment. My problem is (and this goes for making guy friends too) i can never approach a girl, or start a conversation with them because evertime i do, i feel like there thinking in there head "why is this little kid talking to me or trying to hit on me?" i cant tell you how many times were i had conversations with my freinds where other girls were involved, all girls always have to point out how cute and adorable i am, and when they say that usualy a freind would be like you should date him or go out with him and thats imediatly folowed by the girls saying " NO! haha i'd feel like id be molesting him" right in my face..... and then all the other girls in the circle/conversation will agree with here.... as if im not fucking there listening. this has happened thousands of times and has done a toll on my self confidence. I'm not a bad looking kid either, as much as you all think hes a fagget, everyone sais i look exactly like justin bieber. I'm the kinda of person that everytime i look into the mirrior i wonder why the fuck im so gawd damn sexy. but i just look like a kid and not a man. Anyone have any tips on how i can work with my situation?

Start working out, I used to be exactly like you man, I didnt start losing my baby face til I hit the gym hard, buy protein shakes, and work out 3-4 days a week to amp up the testosterone in your body, naturall you will begin to look older, not only from being more muscley but also from the testosterone circulating and causing aging signs like more facial hair etc. Don't expect results straight away mind you, it took me nearly 3 months to start seeing visible improvement in the gym because of my fast matabolism, but now i get complimented on my body all the time and my baby face has faded enough that girls only think I'm a few years younger than I am rather than a teenager (I'm 22)

Hope this helps,

Jake

do you drink protein shakes once a day? or only the days you work out?

Take them daily, but mainly as a contribution to your food. Whole food is always better than shakes...

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Girls are pointing out how cute and adorable you are, and you complain about it?! It's not your looks dude, it's your attitude. This is what I mean: These are your thoughts about their thoughts, not what they are actually thinking. Realize you don't even know what they're thinking. But even if you did and even they were thinking that, who gives a shit? It should become real obvious real soon that they're wrong, and that you are not a kid. So you are creating a problem where there really is none. Or, in other words: you have nothing to fear but fear itself.

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lol its not the kind of cute your thinking about, they think of me being cute as in like a little baby or a puppy, not cute as an attraction, and there not just thots there actually telling me they cant be atracted to me because of how young i look. i've never even had a freind once get told by other girls there not attracted to them, just get rejected. its like they find me so passive, that they can say watever they one in my face without feeling bad.

The worst part of what I read is not the fact you look young. It's the fact you take it to heart in front of people. Don't. Show them you're made of iron, even if you don't think you are. Act tough and confident. Weaknesses can always be turned around to be strengths, you just need to market them as strengths.

For instance, you can say "I'll still be getting carded in 10 years from now. In 10 years you'll be going through menopause, so whatever." Or "I'd rather look like Justin Bieber than Niki Minaj [or other ugly celebrity they may resemble]." Etc. Either way, you need to retort... You can't sit idly and soak in the insult -- that's conceding defeat.

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ye i guess, i always take it, and i always show everyone im confident in those situations, but its all pretend

Again, you project your thoughts in others peoples minds, even mine. How would you know what kind of cute I was thinking about? So I reiterate: it's not your looks, it's your attitude. Think differently, feel differently, act differently. Check this out, pay special attention to the part 'The lies we tell ourselves'. I hope it will help you.

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i guess i need to work on thatbut id just feel like im lieing to myself to make myself feel better lol

I kind of agree in the sense you wouldnt be completely congruent with your actual self, I know first hand what this feels like. Trust me, get in the gym, weight gain shakes etc and a strict regime, when you start buffing up, your "baby face" will look epic on your buffed out self.

simply put, challenge girls. when they say things you dont like or are giving you shit, call them out on it, dont give a shit about it, and give them more shit back. YOU are the man, they are just walking dick coozies.

hb1: "youre adorable (blah blah)"
hb2: "you should date him"
hb1: "noo i would feel like i was molesting him!"
group laughs
PUA: "youd have to get me pretty drunk before id let you molest me"
PUA: "You can molest me as long as you promise we can cuddle after"
PUA: (if shes tall) "lets not get too far ahead of ourselves here, who said i was into tall girls?" (can use interchangeably with brunettes, blondes, redheads, etc.)

Looking young is a good thing because it makes you more approachable and makes people more comfortable around you. Use that to your advantage and stop whining lol. There isn't a problem with looking 15 unless YOU make it to be a problem.

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