I live in a city where it is basically student night every night of the week which I guess is a good and a bad thing. Wednesday I went out got steaming(drunk), so yesterday I had to go out as some of my flat mates friends were here and I said I would previous.

As I felt my body was in absolute ruins form the night before I decided to have a sober one. To which the result was a fun chilled night. However, I find that I can’t speak to girls. Now the club I was in, I must of know over 60 people there so I don’t get bored but I just can’t start interaction in a club when I’m sober with a random girl. I mean I’m a confident guy but when it’s in a club and I’m sober I don’t have a clue?

I would say I’m one of them guys who have to work twice as hard as my mates just get attention as soon as they walk in. I mean most of the time they don’t even make a move the girl does first. As they are all good dancers ectt or they will come and nick their snapback and talk to them.

I spend most of the night avoiding some girl who I don’t like, who was trying to get with me and the other just chatting and dancing with mate but getting extremely agitated at times by people. I ended coming home early but it was on my own accord only to find a group of people banging on my flat door 4:30.

My second though is there is this girl who always speaks to me when sober and shouts my name ectt... but when she is out she just ignores me, don’t know what the deal is with that as normally it’s the other way around. Speak when drunk but not sober.