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| Gameface87 | PostPosted: Thu Feb 07, 2013 11:32 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Jan 30, 2013 12:44 pm Posts: 3 | | Hey,
just wondering some people's advise on a particular situation?
Meet a girl got her number been texting her funny/cocky all good, got a date set early but when it came to it she flaked, her bf (not boy) was in hospital, not bs as my cousin goes out with her bf, so I RE-arranged quickly continued funny/cocky text all seems good arranged another date, all going well then Friday night out of the blue, asks me if I'm up for doing something Sunday, I'm down for this but mention that I'm feeling a bit under the weather so will confirm on Sunday, then Sunday rolls around an I wake up say I'm game, 4 hours late I've been up a while feel crap txt her tell her this, I've heard nothing since?
Now I reckon she's pissed that I flaked on her but I was actually ill, would have affected the date an I've just returned to work today! But I haven't heard a peep from her, should I call her an chat 2 her explain I'm sorry was sick an see if we are still on for our original 2nd planned date (tomorrow) or jus let this one get away? I mean if I call her I seem needy but if I work it tomorrow then I'm back in the game an surely part of being a pua is knowing when to quit but also when to work it to turn the game around?
Opinions plz & thanks
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| puaninja | PostPosted: Thu Feb 07, 2013 5:23 pm | |
| Offline | | PUA Forum Leader |  | Joined: Fri Aug 10, 2012 12:27 pm Posts: 2817 | | I wouldn't call attention to past flakes. The best way to proceed is to call her again and act excited about something and just ask her out again. AFCs are always so tempted to try and qualify and justify and excuse themselves and draw attention to past faliures that they've made. But alphas just proceed head long and go for what they want and don't give a fuck what happened in the past. _________________ “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'!” ~Audrey Hepburn
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