IF! Your game is tight. It's no coincidence that Mystery I think it was, said "you have to show a willingness to walk away", I've found that to be absolutely true.

I'm "seeing" a girl at the moment and often do the boyfriend roleplay thing, mostly because it amuses me. I pretend break up with her whenever she does something wrong, playfully of course, it keeps things fun and interesting. Don't be scared to say something like "Okay we can't be together anymore you're wayy too high maintenance", if you say it jokingly and playfully it'll be taken as such, obviously saying this in a serious tone wont have the same effect.

The girl I'm seeing tells me about the guys that hit on her, shes a HB9 so it happens, instead of getting jealous and insecure which would ultimately push her away, I tease her about it and say things like "oh you know you want him" " hes your future boyfriend don't hate"

It's unbelievable how useless guys outside of the community and outside of being a natural actually are. Just today she told me a guy was hitting on her, she told him she had a boyfriend and he replied "dump him I'll look after you"

Thats just one example, there's many more. Guys are bloody awful when it comes to women, if you've got tight game, you're going to be fine, you can forget about worrying about some douche coming along and taking her. But then again, if you have tight game you're probably not worrying about other guys anyway.