I've been writing my goals and objectives. I'm reading a book which suggested this and I found the experience interesting.
One of the things I wrote was:

I want to marry to a hot woman with a cool personality. (what is hot and what is cool is obviously a relative issue)

I will stop trying to settle with any woman that seems a little interested in me. I will become picky. I will have higher standards.
So yesterday I was sitting on the park and started to look to all the girls passing by. What I found wasn't a discovery or a realization, It was something that every man knows:

Hot women are 1 of 10. (hot is HB9 or 10) THERE ARE NOT ENOUGH!!! (don't laugh)

Not to say that from 10 HBs maybe only 5 are cool and the other five are not material relationship. I won't say this kind of girls only dates rich guys because there isn't a rich guy for every hot woman as there is not a hot woman for every man. Sad but true for every part. Also when hot women date rich guys they do it because they can. Rich guys are cool to. I have friends who are rich and they are very good people with nice values, so money is a niiiicee plus not the core reason why they date attractive women.

That being said, since all the pua thing is to try to learn to get hot woman (not a supermodel, just hot) I see most men here
will fail on this craft.

It is very good to set a goal. But, How flexible can you be ?

After failing and failing maybe you start to lower your standards again. And all the effort you put in fixing your inner game will look as a waste of time. Because you couldn't get what you wanted. You can't always get what you want (credits Jagger/Richards).

When I was sitting there it was clear, after trying in non fulfilling relationships I told myself:

I will date only the kind of women I like or I will be alone.

I don't know if this helps or affects my inner game but I feel stronger with this though. At least if I fail I failed going after what i wanted.
One thing is granted, I have to learn to be alone or the needy 'man in me' (credits Bob Dylan) will start to grow again.

What do you think?

PS I'm not that superficial. I think ugly women are nice and they deserve to be loved. But, they deserve to be loved by a
man who find they beautifull not by a man who is settling because he couldn't get what you wanted.
PS2 If you live in a city where all the girls are beautifull maybe this will sound stupid to you. Try to understand jaja.

As you said, beauty is subjective. A chick I think is a 10 might be an 8 to you, because you're an ass man and I like legs and tits.

I can't honestly say that I ever really thought about whether I actually landed a 10 or not. All I really thought about was whether I got the one I wanted at the time I wanted her. And if I didn't or don't, I try to figure out if it was simply because of circumstance, or if there was something I could have done better. If you focus on the results of the game too much, you forget how to enjoy it. It's like playing a sport and constantly looking at the scoreboard. The fun is in the challenge, the opportunity, the game itself. If I never fucked a 10, I really don't care. All I care about is knowing I played my hardest, and went after the ones I wanted at the time, and hopefully enjoyed some success along the way. It's a bonus to think that the ones who I was successful with got a little something out of the game too.

Thanks for your insight.

I have been watching david X videos this days and I think the guy changed my life for good. So I'm reviewing a lot of what I thought about women, relationships and everything. I can not even belive I wrote this post.

Hb's are like cars in that respect. Who wouldn't want to drive a Ferrari? Most of us won't be lucky enough to afford that luxury. And even if we could, we'd probably come to find that the car is small and impractical for daily use. Yet when we stare at one on a poster or something, we have all these fantasies about driving it and living that lifestyle.

We would more likely be better suited for a performance sedan, or an SUV. These cars are a little cheaper and less luxurious, but they are more comfortable and a better fit for our daily needs. Women are much the same way. Who wouldn't want to have Kate Upton as a girlfriend? But imagine how high maintenance she must be. She's always traveling and working and hardly ever able to spend quality time with you.

This doesn't mean that you have to settle for a used Honda Accord. But you need to be practical and realistic. If you want the dream car, then just know that you'll need to work very hard for it and even then you still might not be completely satisfied. But you can still set your sites high and find a suitable match for your needs.

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