We`ve been on 2 drinks so far, on the last one we kissed at the end, but she said that she wants to take it slow. And now when we saw each other again it was like it never happened. I mean, it wasn`t that we kissed again, only a hug and that`s it. I know she likes me and everything but I don`t want to wait that long for something to happen between us, bcs she seems like she really wants to take this relationship thing reeeally slow, so how do I deal with her?

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Try to find out what her underlying concerns are as far as why she wants to take things slow, and try to address those issues as best you can. Then don't rush her, but try to set up scenarios where it would be optimal for her to let down her inhibitions to allow for intamacy. For instance, having some drinks at home while watching a movie. She might be more willing to go further with you if she feels it's on her own terms after she lets her guard down.

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Well doing this sure won't work! YOU must lead her to it.
Of course she did, she's not just going to jump on you. YOU must escalate the situation.

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Ok yeah sure, I had to lead and escalate, but how do I do that, I mean she often acts like she is playing hard to get and I don`t like that shit. I like to get straight to the point with a girl, grab her kiss her and the next time we see each other that we both now what is going on and that the things go forward normally, not backwards like with this one, so I want to know how deal with this...
Thanks for good advice too puaninja, but if I let her know that this is going forward under her terms, wouldn`t that be a bad thing? I mean we all know who the man is and what he is supposed to do, not to let her to dictate the course of actions...

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I've always found the "lets just be friends" line a great way to speed things up. No one likes being rejected so if you steal the girls frame and say this to her then she will instantly start approval seeking with you. All you need to do is keep to the lets be friends and watch the sexual tension rise rapidly!!

Ok srsly.. I really don`t think me putting myself into friendzone will help in this situation.. That would just delay everything from happening..

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You're not really putting her in the friend zone you're simply implying that you can take her or leave her. In all relationships/interactions one person like the other more - by simply saying this to her you're tipping the balance more and framing it like she likes you!!

Ultimately you're rejecting her and this will give her a negative emotion so she will do whatever she can to make herself feel better AKA chase you!!

You got that right... But I think it would be then more appropriate and useful if I showed her that, not actually say that.. Bcs with saying I would actually imply that idea into her head and we don`t want that do we?
To be, not to do.. So I agree with you, but it would be better if I show her that I am abundant-either she goes with the flow or she loses me..

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Don't play her game, she wants to take things slow for a reason. She's unsure. You need to grab her by the hand and show her what she wants. I'm not on these dates, only you are. You know how things are going. If the signs are there then just go for what you want. Tell her what you want. She told you what she wanted. That way you guys know where your at. Once you've told her what you want and she still sticks around then go do it. She's obviously sticking around because she's interested. Don't waste your time or her's.

I'll have to disagree with this on all accounts. First of all, she's not unsure. She knows what she wants, which is to take things slow. And telling her that you want to get physical is just showing neediness and would only serve to put her off and make her uncomfortable.

Now I'm not saying that you can't still try to flirt and escalate, but you don't want to put it out in the open and make it a high pressure/ultimatum type situation. Just play along with whatever she is saying and act like you are cool with it, since alphas don't get frustrated or desperate for sex. Meanwhile you continue to run subtle game on her and keep building attraction and seduction.

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She probably isn`t unsure yeah.. But it`s like she trying to be hard to get or I don`t know what. Maybe she has a really vivid picture of what a road to a relationship should look like and that`s what she sticks with..
I`ll have to step up my game, but since i`m not into these relationship things (I like to game and have sex with a lot of girls at the same time) I dont know how long I will last here But I feel she is worth the trouble, really nice girl
Don`t know though how to put wheels in motion here.. Either with asking her out or how to act around her..

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Talk, talk, talk!

Look for the signs and signals

If you’re not paying attention, you’re probably missing a veritable horde of signals that all mean the same thing. You don’t need to be a genius in the area of human behavior; you only need to spot one or two signs and she’ll usually provide you with more, and then it's go time. However, it just goes to show how crucial observation is for any PUA.

If your not noticing any, you may need to build more comfort, using kino, sexual innuendo, push/pull.

All women are different, some need a little more "Warm up" than others.

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Well, her signals so far told me, that she is pretty interested. Interested a lot in fact. But now some strange shit is going on Probably bcs she`s an amateur in this..

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If you are waiting for something give a rather direct hint for it. You should have a sexual undertone. I think that every girl is afraid of be taken for a slut. In case you want to get better as a personality meet her.

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You should know exactly where the girl is and reaction of the girl. When the reaction is positive, then you should talk and approach immediately. Women value strength and similarity. If you wait then it changes the relationship even in the future.