First things first: sorry for my not so good english

I started with PUA a year ago and was before that really bad with women.

Anyway, since then I've had 8-9 ONS. I see if a girl is attracted to me, I tell her she's cute blablabla, jump the shit tests and thats it. The less I care about the girl or outcome the easier it is. Two weeks ago I talked 1 minute with a random hot girl while I was ordering beer, I wrote my number on the receipt and went back to my friends. Three days later she is sending me horny messages. My game is mainly crash and burn, the results I get are ONS or day2 with sex. To conclude i do things i couldn't imagine doing one year ago. But, of course there is a onitis

I was flirting a little with her, joked about that she's just a baby (18y old.), then she left and I stayed talking to her friends. I gained all her friends attention with storytelling and when she came back she was just standing looking at me. She tried to get my attention but I just continud my storie. I'm not confident but she was displaying every fucking IOI there is. I took her number and a couple of days later I take her and her friend grocery shopping. We have fun and talk a lot and I start qualifying her, it works and when her friend was outside she says that she is the smarter one.

After a while at my place (her friend was there to) I lost attraction and they left. After that she wasn't ignoring me but I could sense that the attraction was gone. I was a little to needy with messages after that, asking her out and she was just replying "can't this time " and other excuses.

I asked her friend and she's just saying that she's not into me, that I'm too much of a nice guy for her. After that I once met her at a club and took the oppurtunity to IOD, I just told her that I was curious about her but that she's way to imature.

Is this a lost case? I know it would be easier to just move on but I really like her. Is it impossible? I haven't seen or talked to her last 3-4 months.

Sounds like a lost cause to me. Unless you have a history with the girl, you can't normally get them back once you've lost their attraction. It's hard, I know. But to her, she's made up her mind about you and that's final. It'd be like someone trying to convince you that a food you don't like is now good. But to you, you know that you don't like anchovies and that you won't like them even if you give it another taste. And the more someone tries to get you to try it again, it just annoys you more and more until you just eventually start ignoring them.

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Ok, so it is impossible?

My friend is the boyfriend of her friend so she is in one of my social circles although I don't hang out with them. As I said I haven't seen or heard from her in 3 months.

I know she has another friend who was flirting with me back then, and I was stupid and didn't flirt back. Say I start to go out to the same clubs as them and I build preselection in her social circle, is it going to help or has she lost attraction for ever?

If say some girls start asking her about me, telling that I'm cute or something, is this gonna help me? Kind of a jealousy plot? I know that they'll ask about me if I just get 10 min storytelling or something. (the only thing I'm good at hahah)

Thanks for your post btw

She's not interested, why do you care?

Nexxxxttttt.

Well, 2 years ago no girl was interested in me but I changed that...

of course I date other girls too, as I sad i haven't talked to this girl in a couple of months. Im just asking if it is possible to regain attraction after you lost it. Make it a general question, is it possible after say 1 year no contact if you have been doomed as a Nice Guy?


Thanks for your answers