Hello guys,
Let me start by introducing myself. I am a 32 years old professional man, with a decent job. I moved to a small town in Canada for this job. As far as relations with the opposite sex go, I was much restrained during the the teens. I mainly focused on studying and supporting myself and my education by working part-time during University days. I had a relationship which lasted about three years during University days,and later, I had another that changed to marriage. But the marriage lasted only 4 years. I divorced last summer.
I have kept my eyes open in this small town, though most of the girls I run onto so far are either married or have boyfriends. I went to the local restaurant/brewery this past Thursday to eat dinner and have few beer. I was seated next to two beautiful young girls. While going through the drinks menu, I asked one of the girls, X, the kind of beer she was drinking and what she will recommend for me. She said "actually, we work her" so she came over my table and showed me two beers she recommends, one of which she is drinking. I just went for it, and started talking. They both were off for the day, and are enjoying the beer in this beer house.They are both students. I mainly have been talking to X, but I really am attracted to the other girl Y. Y is way hotter. But, honestly, any of them work fine. Anyways, I thought it is inappropriate to ask the number for one girl while talking to both. Also, I thought it would be inappropriate to ask both of them to give me their numbers. The hotter girl went to the washroom and that is when I asked X to give me her number so we go out to a movie sometime. After a bit of hesitation, she said no problem. I gave her my cel so she writes it. At that point I was eating dinner. She wrote her number on my cell, and the hot girl came back. We continued talking. The hot girl was very much forthcoming, may be because I tended to ignore her initially? They stood up to leave and the hotter girl said "see you around again." She repeated her and her friend's name and she said if I come another day, I will meet either her or her friend. From the few dating books I have been reading recently, I will have to wait between a week and two before I contact the girl who gave me her number. right? I intend to go to the bar sometime. What do you think I should do? Should I ask to be seated at the tables the hotter girl is serving and continue to talk to her to get her number, or should I ask to be seated at X, who gave me her number and continue to talk to her casually, until I ask her out sometime during the time frame I mentioned? Do you have any recommendation on the best way froward? Honestly, I am a nerd kind of guy,
and I want to change myself with your help and with effective use of the resources on PUA.
Wub
CHAT
