Alright so I decided to go to some bars on thursday night (yesterday) on a cold ass night in Chicago. The places I went to were really dead so for some reason I decided to stop at a walgreens at 1 am on the way home.

I walk in and I see this hot ass worker in the corner. I asked her to use the bathroom, and she said they were closed. Then I asked if they sold rubber livestrong bracelets. She said no, but she showed me some zipper ones. I did a tiny bit of filrting, but then I walked out.

After sitting in the car, I thought fuck it i'm gonna go back in there and tell her she's cute. I went back in and did just that. We did some talking and it turns out she's the manager their and is 38! I told her I was 21 and she didn't believe me until she looked at my ID. She thought it was really funny and ridiculous that I was hitting on her. She also said she was mexican.

anyways, she typed in her number, I texted her "yo" and I asked what time she got off work. She said 8:30 am so I told her I would take her out to breakfast. I gave her A hug and then left at about 1:30 am

We did a lot of texting:

Me-1:24 am: yo
Her-1:30 am: yo yo
Me-1:43 am: you don't know what ur in for gurl
Her-1:43 am: Bitch Please!!! Lol

I then went to bed.
the next morning:

Me-8:36 am: Man of your dreams here. How's my beautiful voluptious mexican manager today?
Her-8:37 am: Lol!!!!
Me-8:44 am: I got a really good breakfast place for us this morning. It's called Ihop.
Her-8:45 am: Lmfao!!! I'm on my way home!
Her-8:45 am: Where you at?
Me-8:49 am: I'm in Lincolnwood. I could pick u up. Itll be so romantic...
Her-8:50 am: Lol I have a car but thanks. Lol you're lame!! Hahahahaha I'll see you another time

At this point I though it may have been over but.

Me-8:56 am: You really seem like cool lady inside and out. Ur sexy and you got a nice personality. The second coolest person I know...
Her-8:56 am: what next to you?lol
Her-8:57 am: you must be the first coolest person right
Me-9:00 am: They make those Walgreens workers smart huh?
Her-9:01 am: just me sugar. that's why they pay me the big bucks HahAhahah!!!
Me-9:05 am: Wow we can buy a house in the caribean now.
Me-9:05 am: Perfect place for sexual passion
Her-9:06 am: Lol !! How do you spell your name
Me-9:13 am: Ollie just like skateboarding
Her-9:13 am: Lol!!!! Ok thanx

Me-9:21 am: I can tell ur excited to see me again
Me-9:25 am: (kiss face)
Her-9:26 am: Sure buddy. I'm soooo excited. Lol
Me-9:30 am: If you really wanted to turn on someone, what color would you be?
Her-9:31 am: Red
Me-9:36 am: Red underwear too? Sorry just envisioning the future...
Her-9:36 am: Lol I wear whatever coordinates with my socks!!
Me-9:40 am: Damn you must have smelly boobs
Her-9:41 am: Hahahahaha!!! Dumb ass
Me-9:46 am: Whatever ur doing right now, youd be haveing way more fun doing it with me
Her-9:47 am: Is that right??
Me-9:50 am: Of course
Me-9:55 am: Breakfast with me is equivilant to heaven. No joke
Her-9:56 am: Uh huh. Lol
Me-9:59 am: Ok love ill see you at 10:30
Her-9:59 am: Tootles

Me-10:02 am: So ur coming?
Her-10:03 am: When?? In 30 minutes?? I'm in bed now fool. Lol I thought you were talking about tonight lol!!!
Her-10:03 am: I don't do shit when I work........that's what my week off is for lol
Me-10:04 am: Wen do u work tonight
Her-10:05 am: 1030
Me-10:06 am: Hahahaha
Me-10:09 am: You got a chance for a brief free breakfast with a cool ass dude. U should take it. Naps are great on a full stomach
Her-10:10 am: Lol!! Hmmm how bout Sunday morning. I don't have have to work that night.
Me-10:25 am: Hmm thats a flattering offer. Don't expect to get in my pants though...
Her-10:26 am: Damn......LOL!!!!!


So I decided to leave it at that this morning until further notice.

What did you guys think? What was good? What was bad? What should I do next?

Thanks for reading, and thanks in advance to everyone that replies. -Ollie B

Quite good so far, though she doesn't seem too interested. If she flakes this date I'd not bother.

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Dam good! She is just playing hard to get but keep at it, she's interested. She seems like a cool ass chick, nice work on sexualizing the conversation so early!

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Let me know if yall get any more ideas!

Both posters are correct and give some good info. You did do a great job of keeping things sexual... this will keep u out of the LJBF zone.... but i wouldnt be surprised if she fakes on u again either.... its just a bit of the AGE difference and lack of attraction when u first met her.

What i would try to do next time is build way more attraction when u are FACE TO FACE with the girl. When u were in Walgreens u asked to go to the bathroom and for a livestrong bracelet? Lol thats totally AFC.... but again u had no idea when u went in there she was gonna be hot. This is why in my opinion it is important to have canned openers/stacked stories to help build attraction/comfort/emotional connections.

moving forward keep pushing to hang out. She might do it. She might not. But next time capitalize on the first impression and interaction.

GL
DUKE

Thanks for the replies. appreciate it.

Got a question though. Should I pay for the breakfast? In general is it better to pay for women on dates or to go "against the norm" and not pay?

Dude.. your text game is top notch! way to go

I don't like paying for things unless...

a) She doesn't have any money.
b) I'm damn sure about that it's going to work out, so she's worth my money.
c) She's already my girlfriend.
d) She's a friend of mine.

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I am kinda bad at this. I always pay, but see if she offers at least...besides, it's just breakfast!

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**Update**

Yo thanks for the replies so far. I appreciate it.

So after friday morning, there was no contact made until sunday morning (when she said she was free).

I purposely waited for her to text me first, but she didn't. I was feeling like my chances were pretty low at this point so I almost gave it up, but I though fuck it. What could I lose?

Me-9:56 am: Hey
Her-9:57 am: What's up
Me-10:02 am: So how do u plan on impressing me today?
Her-10:03 am: Ewwww I think that's the other way around. Lol
Me-10:05 am: I guess well see.

took her long to reply. i think i may have fucked up at this point

Me-10:09 am: Alright. Princess lets hang out around 11. If amazing magical thing start to happen when you see me, don't worry it's perfectly normal
Her-10:11 am: Lol too early I can do after 330. No babysitter til then

I started to get excited cus i friggin love milfs

Her-10:11 am: Besides I need to sleep a bit. I.
Me-10:11 am: Your a babysitter? Lol
Her-10:12 am: Uh no dummy. Lol for my kid lol

Yes!

Me-10:14 am: Sweet ur a milf!! Lovin it
Her-10:14 am: I have three and one is almost your age!!! Hahahahaha
Me-10:15 am: Cool so supebowl party for 2 at your house later..... Got it
Her-10:15 am: Lol Ehhhh no!! Hahaha
Me-10:19 am: Who else r u gonna eat nachos, drink beer and play full contact sports with?
Her-10:20 am: No one. Lol I'll be sleeping then. Gotta wake up at 3am and hit the gym sukka.
Me-10:22 am: I got work at 4. Since there's no babysitter, i can help watch your kid til then.
Her-10:22 am: Hahahahaha you cute
Me-10:23 am: Don't expect favors like this all the time though
Her-10:23 am: Lmao!! Okie dokie
Me-10:24 am: I c ur in a bit of a pickle, so Im just tryna help a sister out ya know?
Her-10:24 am: Ah I see
Me-10:29 am: Ur learning good job (kiss face). Ok so the place in need of expectional assistance is....
Her-10:30 am: Not here. Lmao!!!
Me-10:33 am: Cmon I know you want some company . Just listen to ur gut for once...

I thought i may have pushed too hard with that cus she took long to reply

Her-10:38 am: Don't know you enough to bring you or anybody around my boy for that matter.
Her-10:41 am: Does your itty bitty phone get pics?? Lol!!

(my phone doesn't get pics unfortunately)

Me-10:44 am: No it's too special for that lol. U tryin to show me your son?
Her-10:44 am: No
Her-10:44 am: Was gonna send you one what I look like out of work. Lol

I was so pissed!!

Me-10:45 am: That's ok im sure you'r fasion sense is muuuuch better than what i saw
Her-10:47 am: Not so much fashion. but ok. Lol

Fuuuck!

Me-10:51 am: Try it I guess. If not email that raunchy jpeg! (gave her my email)
Her-10:53 am: It's cool. Lol
Her-10:53 am: Hope do you not know if you get pics or not??
Me-10:56 am: Im not sure. Don't get hung up on it though. I wanna know what else you can offer me besiiides ur looks
Her-10:56 am: Um your almost half my age kid. Lol!!
Me-10:57 am: Age is just a number little girl
Her-10:58 am:Lmfao!!!!!!
Me-11:00 am: Ill see wat u look like out of work soon enough. Just make sure you look good
Her-11:00 am: Lol I always do sukka sukka. Lol
Me-11:03 am: Dam your lingo is pretty outdated. Its kinda cute
Her-11:03 am: LMFAO!!!!!!!!

Me-11:06 am: Alright so I'm coming over when?.......
Her-11:07 I'm not bringing you here. Your crazy. Lol

this is where I change my approach

Me-11:10 am: U no wat I respect that. U seem like a good mother. Im down to get to know u more
Her-11:10 am: Thanx. I appreciate that


So that's where I left it. I took a shower, and I started posting this. Than she texted me again

Her-12:11 pm: You just earned major Brownie points.....or what I like to call them......get out of jail points. Lmao. Good night.have good day now.
Me-12:12 pm: Ya "good night" at 12 pm lol
Her-12:13 pm: Lol i'm tired man. Had a long night at work. Lol good night

So that's where things are now. I wanna have sex with her soooo bad!

How am I doing? What direction should I take.

To be honest this is the furthest I've ever gotten with seduction techniques so I'm pretty much a noobie at this stage of the game.

Thanks for the replies and keepem coming!

Damn that's awesome. I was reading this and thought about "Why doesn't he switch the frame? She's always coming with this too young shit." And there you did it!

You are doing fucking awesome. If you can finally get her to meet up, she's definitely dtf.

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That is some tight texting game, respeeeeccctttt dawg.

Inspiring me to whip my phone out and learn this shit, looks fun

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**Update 2**

Alright so to be honest I didn't know what would be the best way to secure a meet up with her after talking sunday afternoon.

Soooooo

Tues (today)

Me-6:23pm: I wanna see ur beautiful face in person. Make it happen

No reply for over 4 hours. Suprising

Her-10:49pm: I'll be out tomorrow...come join us

I wasn't sure wether to agree to that, or to push for an isolated date. I decided to go for it cus it's already been hard enough to actaully meet up her

Me-10:53pm: I'm down... Who else is goin
Her-10:54pm: Just some friends....from work
Her-10:55pm: I'll.text you the time. I think were heading out around 1030
Me-10:56pm: Whats ur work schedule like over the week
Her-10:57pm: I'm of Till Sat. Then I work Sat to Sat from 1030 to 830
Me-11:05pm: Alright I'm down. Start getting excited sunshine!
Her-11:09pm: Lol I'll text you tomorrow. Were going to be by my work.


So thats it so far. The only reason I posted this, was cus I wasn't sure why she wants me to go out with her friends first.

Is it a good sign? Is it a bad sign? Did I make the right move by agreeing?

Thanks as always, Ollie B.

To be honest. It's either a massive test and demonstration of how she's not easy, or a not too god sign. See if she met you up personally, that would be a definite indicator of interest. Not sure about this.

If it was a test however you did well to accept it. She would think you just want to fuck her. Which might be the case, but she would have the right to believe that you are not interested in her in that case, you just really wanted pussy. So I guess you did well.

Beware though. That meet-up might be a little tough. Be fun. Be cool with her co-workers, and if you manage to isolate, keep your cocky style, initate KINO, and flirt heavily.

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