'I'm not easy!'



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 Post subject: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 3:11 pm 
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I was out last night with a few of my mates, and one of them asked a girl if she wanted a drink (he's a major AFC). Anyway I turned to her friend, a HB7, and said the "can you take a sincere compliment from a stranger?" opener.

After throwing a few more c&f lines her hands were up my shirt, she was a little drunk, and I knew I was in there.
Then I thought I'll do a bit of push and pull, so leaned in as if to k-close and then pulled back and said "I'm not that easy".
Then she turned a bit mental and said "Are you implying that I'm easy?"
So I said no and tried to recover but she was majorly pissed off and left

I was wondering what you guys would have done in this situation.

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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:04 pm 
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When YOU lean in to kiss the girl and then suddenly pause and say "im not that easy" that kinda implies that u are mocking her of being easy.. :D


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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 4:17 pm 
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You should have just kissed her.

If you want to push pull, next time just try to leave the set when you know you've hooked and get her to follow you/ latch on. No reason to pull out of a kiss like that.


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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 6:11 pm 
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Yeah thinking back I should have, I just thought that it was a bit early in the interaction.
I was only talking to her for about 2 minutes, but I guess it only takes as long as it takes

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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Sat Feb 02, 2013 11:08 pm 
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yeah, you should have just kissed her. that would be a good take away once you actually DO kiss her and she goes to escalate. save that move for the back burner tho lol not to many situations that will work


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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Sun Feb 03, 2013 6:55 pm 
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I just use a push pull sometimes before any kino starts on a meeting / date situation

Once it starts then I will escalate until she says stop.

A green light stays green unless she stops it.


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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2013 1:30 pm 
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A couple things. The line was delivered at the wrong time under the wrong circumstance. You shouldn't say "I'm not that easy" when you are actually about to do something sexual. You should only say it when it's obvious that it's a joke. If you wanted to push/pull there, you should've just pulled away and not said anything or changed the subject. Build up the sexual tension.

The other thing I wanted to mention is drunken retardedness. I've seen drunk girls get all offended at stuff that isn't even remotely offensive. In their drunk mind it becomes an excuse for them to get all overly dramatic about nothing. Some girls are drama queens anways.

So just chalk it up as a learning experience and don't worry about it.

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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Mon Feb 04, 2013 4:02 pm 
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and...don't ever think that it's "too early" to kiss. (you mentioned only being in set for 2 mins)

I've kiss closed within 2 minutes a few times and it can happen with the girl being completely comfortable with it.

If she wants it, go for it and don't back away. However, since it had only been 2 minutes, you may be better off just kissing and backing away and then continuing the conversation to comfort build


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 Post subject: Re: 'I'm not easy!'
PostPosted: Sun Feb 10, 2013 4:04 pm 
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I would've leaned in for the kiss, paused and then just whispered "I would kiss you right now but the bartender is looking at us funny" in her ear. It's pull but I honestly don't think push would've been appropriate when you're kissing her. Just kissing her is a pull itself.

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