When I first started learning game I was taught not to be a pussy, to get rid of the whole "aww I love you" crap and focus on leading in every situation. I've done that, it works.

But do we really have to get rid of all the affection? I love being cheesy and cute, you know the couples we look at and just think "eurgh" because her boyfriend is spoiling her and being what you'd typically class as AFC.

But, if you're leading in every situation, being the dominant one, doing things that you get taught when learning Pick Up, can you also do the affectionate stuff? Send cute texts, etc.. etc..?

I've been talking to this girl for a while, sometimes shes calling me a Jerk and other times shes calling me sweet, shes a HB9, it seems to be going well so far. We're not in a relationship because she lives miles away but shes coming to a Uni just down the road purely to be closer to me.

This conversation just happened via text

Her: You're so sweet sometimes
Me: I know
Her: aanndd you've ruined it
Me: Oh so I'm back to jerk status?
Her: You're always a jerk, you're either a jerky jerk or a sweet jerk

Have I found the perfect balance?

This text conversation happened the other day, we were discussing love letters (more talking about whether we've ever written them, rather than "oh I wanna write you one")

Her: I'm going to sleep, I want my love letter tomorrow
Me: Better find another boyfriend before you go to sleep then (role play boyfriend/girlfriend)
Her: Fuck you!! What if I pull when i'm out clubbing
Me: As long as he isn't hotter than me, have fun!
Her: I'll bare that in mind
Me: That's cute, you'll probably be too busy telling me you love me anyway (she does this a lot when drunk)
Her: What if I don't take my phone?
Me: If you don't, how are you gonna save the guys number?
Her: Shhh i'm not the pulling type
Me: Nope, you're way too pushy

Man, i guess you're in a good place with this girl right now... you're keeping it C&F and it's cool... it's OK to give her some cheesy and sweet stuff every now and then, just don't over do it... it may lead to "relationship diabetes"

Don't say things like "I know" when she says your sweet or hot or w.e...A man who is high value doesn't have to pump his own tires. When a woman says to me "Your hot" or "Your so funny" I simply reply with "Thank you". If someone said to you "nice car" you wouldn't reply with "I know" you would already have realized its a nice car and said "Thank you" lol Women do take note of this...and it will only cause you more shit tests in the future.

As for being romantic no if that actually how you are then play it up! be congruent in who you are, own it! Don't try to be something your not! women see right through this. I'm not telling you to tell every woman you meet that you love them but if your dating a girl, shes being awesome towards you, then by all means do something romantic! if she starts to text you, treat you poorly then pull back....I do "romantic" stuff all the time! just don't over do it.

It seems like you are going well with this hb. Don't think you need any help.

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