I'll try to make a long story short guys. I met this girl a few days ago, was doing good building attraction, watched a movie with her and escalated. I caught a lot of LMR, it would get really "hot" to the point where I'm about to take her clothes off, then she would say playfully, "No! Go to sleep... One of us has to have self control" this happened about 5 times, until I finally just let her go to sleep.

I told her I was leaving after she fell asleep, she begged me to stay. She fell asleep holding me, and I ended up falling asleep somehow (didn't plan to). Woke up the next morning and she was smiling and telling me she thought I would have left, she woke up and saw me and thought "Aww " ...

The day after, She ended up popping up by my class to say hi, I told her to come play me in pool later. We had a good day and she was feeling me still, later on that night was karaoke night. I told her she should stick around and hear me sing, she did. They ended up staying the whole night, but she started distancing herself with me and it seemed like she was feeling one of my boys. She started getting kind of rude towards me and acted like she wasn't into me anymore. When it was time to go, she asked what was my friends name again, I had 3 friends there but she only asked that one. She gave him a hug and shook hands with the other 2.

We live in the same building so on the way back, we were talking about how my roommate is usually in the room with some girl at this time of night, so I'll have to make a trip all the way back across campus. She said no I wouldn't, because she's upstairs. So I text her about 30 minutes after I got into my room letting her know that I called it (that my roommate was in the room), and she didn't respond at all. Today, I used the 'flake' I saw your twin response, and she responded "where?" then I waited about 2 hours and when I said, "xxxx (location), why didn't you tell me there was someone that looked just like you on campus?" she didn't respond again. That's where I'm at now. She's freezing me out.

I hung out with her close friend and roommate today, they had a ride to wal-mart and invited me, so I went because I had to go anyways. They're not acting like there's anything wrong.

What can I do to fix this? It seems like she basically lost all attraction within a few hours??? Is that possible? Is there any way I can fix this? I was starting to like this girl.

I thought about being straight up and asking her, but I already know that's the AFC way to go about things. Should I let her friends know that I'm feeling her and hope that message gets delayed? If I freeze her out as well, she'll just find somebody else and forget about me, because it's college. Somebody gave me this advice before about another girl that I was having trouble with and we haven't spoken since. Should I play it different than I would if I was just trying to fuck her and then leave her alone?

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Any help guys? Something that i forgot to add, I hang out with her guy friends often so I'll probably see her around. I'm not sure how to act.

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Lol. What a grade A cunt. Have a little respect for yourself, bra. She was all into you then she has the nerve to ask for your friend's name. And you still want her?

She's just a lost child. Leave her alone. Don't bother texting her. When she's around you, just act like she's a stranger, and you hardly know her. In other words, pay little attention to her except for the casual "hey how are you." And leave it at that.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.

You're right. Thanks man.

The only problem is that I'm friends with her close friends and they hit me up to hang out all the time. A lot of the times she's not around, but what about the times that she is?

It would be kind of awkward to pay her no attention whatsoever...

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Just act like nothing happened. Don't let your emotions get the best of you... Don't show that you're angry, saddened, or in lust. Eventually she may even come back around if you continue putting up your act.

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Before she can respect you, you need to respect yourself.