Hi!

I have a problem, having physical contact with other people when engaging them in conversations. They are not usually used to physical contact with me and would it be very odd or even creepy if I started to touch them more when talking (when appropriate of course)? I am talking about people I know so it is not strangers. I have a good firm friendly relationship but I think I have problems with getting physically social or what to call it.

So is it okay to start off easy with the KINO just because this is an unusual part of my personality (regrettably)? I mean if I do not have much physical contact with people I usually hang out with then KINO escalating when going sarging would be very hard for me maybe.

Just so you know, I live in Sweden and we have a more cold social culture but that might just be a lame excuse. I presume that KINO escalation also heightens attraction or might be the next step.

You should be doing kino on girls you are trying to pickup, not just girls you already know. Don't use that as an excuse. Go talk to new girls. Hey, if you are the only man in Sweeden who is touchy feely then the girls will just have to get used to it. Pua's are the exception to the rule. They do what other don't. No excuses.

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I've been to Sweden and, like everywhere else in the world, people, especially women, love to be touched.

The key is making it congruent with your personality and make it natural. If you have high energy, and lightly touch people in a set on the upper arm or back as you are engaging them individually, it won't be creepy, it will be normal. That's all kino is, and you make each touch last a bit longer and go somewhere else on the body. If you make a big deal out of it, it will be creepy, so don't make a big deal out of it, because it isn't a big deal.

When you are talking and are making a point on something touch them lightly on their arm. Like "listen (touch), I think you'll love this..." Use kino games, like palm reading, or the ring routine to build up comfort when kinoing. But more importantly, be completely non-sexual about it. That should be your mental state. You are just a friendly touchy person. The thing is, if you are having sexual thoughts when touching people, they can pick up on that. Once you convince yourself that touching is completely friendly and innocent, you'll do it more easily and more often

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